I’m on birth control pills and he pulled out. But you’re right I’m not sure he knew what specific testing he got. Now I’m worried.

Ok thanks for the info. I’m not noticing other symptoms. We didn’t use protection but he’s been tested for stds.

I lost my virginity on Thursday and it’s now Saturday. I bled after and I thought it was my hymen breaking. But I’m still bleeding today and it’s almost like I’m on my period (but that wouldn’t make sense because I ended my last period a week ago). I have to wear a pad because I’m bleeding that much...

The article was helpful, thanks. I am still regretting my decision and wondering if I was making a bigger deal out of it than it was. Even though he said he never wanted to be anything more than what we were because of distance, he was still a really nice and understanding person and we had a lot in...

I ended up telling him I needed a break from him. I think you’re right and that overall the relationship wasn’t healthy for me and made me question my worth. Even so, he’s the nicest and most understanding guy I’ve talked to so I do still feel at a loss and I already miss him a lot. For some reason ...

Hello. I’ve talked about this before...but I wanted to hear thoughts about it now. So I’ve been talking to this guy from Oregon I met on tinder for four months. I’m from Wisconsin so we wouldn’t be able to easily meet even if we weren’t in the midst of a global pandemic. He is so great and although ...

I don’t know how to block my feelings for him especially when I can’t see any cons to him as a person.

Yes that would be helpful.

Yes I’d like to continue talking to him. I don’t think I can protect my heart because he’s everything I wanted and I’ve never met a boy as nice as he is. So I know I’m setting myself up to get hurt and it’s really hard to know that I probably won’t ever get to meet him in person.

Yes that sounds like good practice. I just said no to someone who had been sending me nudes for awhile and I’m going to stop all interaction with other guys I think. I guess my only worry is that the guy I actually like isn’t completely on the same page. I’ve asked before and I was the only girl he ...

He is someone who I’ve sent nudes to but he’s different. I’ve talked to him about it before and he says he doesn’t just talk to me because of that it’s because he actually likes talking to me. If I ever don’t feel like it I can tell him and never pushes me to send anything, he just tells me it’s ok....

Yes we’ve talked about it a little. I mean originally he told me he just wanted something fun and more casual. But we talked more and he said he’s not completely closed off to the idea of having a more serious relationship with me. He said he’d date me if I was closer. As for FaceTime or phone calls...

Yes I send nudes to a lot of random guys because I want validation that I am beautiful since many times I don’t think I am. And so even when I don’t feel like it, I’ve sent nudes to guys because I just want to please them and for them to like me. I haven’t really had good experiences with guys and I...

Hi! So I just had a guy asking me for nudes and normally I’d be ok with it but I’m on my period right now so I’m not comfortable with it. But he kept asking anyway and asked if I didn’t want to show my vagina if I could show something else. I just didn’t want to and ended up blocking him. I feel rea...

Hello! So I used tinder passport while it was free and met this guy from Oregon (I am from Wisconsin). I really like him and he is a great guy and is everything I'm looking for in a significant other. I've never met any boy more kind, genuine, and honest on tinder or even in person honestly. The pro...

I’m looking for a boyfriend. I want to have an exclusive relationship and him to support and appreciate me. I feel like I’d have to ask where he sees this going in the future and if he thinks it could ever lead to something more. I’d like to be able to have an open conversation with him and figure o...

Yes, I’d like some ideas as to how to approach the conversation. I think I’m uncomfortable even though I’m being hypocritical is because ideally I would be in a serious relationship. I think it helps to talk to multiple people at once since I feel less hurt knowing they’re talking to other people to...

Hello! So I’ve been snapping a lot of guys during this quarantine that I’ve met over bumble and tinder. But I have a couple favorites and I really want something more serious. One of the guys I really like I’ve been sending nudes because he really likes that and thinks I’m hot. The other one doesn’t...

How do you make hooking up not awkward though? Especially if I’ve never even kissed someone. There’s this guy that I’ve been talking to that’s so respectful and seems like he’d be so great to hookup with because he wouldn’t pressure me into anything, but I’m just afraid of making things awkward. He’...

Yes it makes sense to meet in public first. I guess I just don’t know what expect for hooking up. Like do you think it’s good to start with a movie or talking or just start making out? Yes I’ve thought about what I want and I want experience and to feel good as well and to have fun.

So I’m an 18 year old (girl) virgin. I’ve never even kissed a guy. But I’ve been using tinder and guys just want to hookup and I want experience, but do you think it’s a good idea to hang out with a guy for the first time at his place with him thinking you’re going to potentially hookup? I know hook...