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by Zoia
Tue Jul 28, 2020 10:03 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex just doesn't do it for me.
Replies: 7
Views: 3235

Re: Sex just doesn't do it for me.

Ehhhh, I'm kinda like...if everything else is being helped I'll suck it up for dreaming you know? I just want my body to work properly and right like UGH WHY CAN'T I BE NORMALLLLL. It is nice to know however that I'm not the only one, feeling kinda like a unicorn over here. Okay, so after I switch t...
by Zoia
Mon Jul 27, 2020 3:53 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex just doesn't do it for me.
Replies: 7
Views: 3235

Re: Sex just doesn't do it for me.

Sorry for the long response. I've had a lot of RL issues (which you'll know from my other area) and just been busy in general. I did take your advice and she has switched me to lexapro. I don't know how long it takes to like...switch? So I honestly haven't really tried. I'm on 10mg rn, and after 2 w...
by Zoia
Mon Jul 06, 2020 2:20 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex just doesn't do it for me.
Replies: 7
Views: 3235

Re: Sex just doesn't do it for me.

Currently it's my regular doctor prescribing them, and I don't see her again until October. I did call her and ask for something for anxiety so they might want me to come in sooner I don't know. But that's why it's also funny, I am horny, and I am aroused, I just can't get there. And it makes me soo...
by Zoia
Mon Jul 06, 2020 12:13 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sex just doesn't do it for me.
Replies: 7
Views: 3235

Sex just doesn't do it for me.

Annnddd Hi all! The long awaited (lol) topic of me, and how I don't enjoy sex. Alright, correction, I enjoy like...the emotional connection to sex and everything that's nice. But any vaginal intercourse (even with myself) does NOTHING. It quite literally feels like if you put a finger in your mouth....
by Zoia
Fri Apr 10, 2020 5:06 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How do you like to receive love/affection?
Replies: 13
Views: 7905

Re: How do you like to receive love/affection?

This thread kind of made me realize, I don't really know. I find that certain areas of my body are very sensitive- ticklish sensitive, so I don't like to be touched there. I really like that intimacy without being intimate thing. Snuggling, cuddling on the couch, watching a movie, just being near ea...
by Zoia
Fri Apr 10, 2020 4:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Butterfly feelings
Replies: 4
Views: 2692

Re: Butterfly feelings

Oh I love that take on it Jacob. And yes, you know exactly what I mean with the butterflies, and yes there is totally a difference between new butterflies and then relationship ones. I haven't asked a lot of people about it, but I might. I sometimes get ideas in my head that I'm curious about what e...
by Zoia
Fri Apr 10, 2020 6:15 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Butterfly feelings
Replies: 4
Views: 2692

Re: Butterfly feelings

In my personal experience, that feeling goes away within a couple months or so. Maybe a year or longer for my current boyfriend. I did ask my therapist this question, he's been married somewhere between 20-30 years. Sorry that's vague, I don't remember anything. And he said that he still gets those ...
by Zoia
Thu Apr 09, 2020 3:02 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: High Sex Drive vs Low Sex Drive
Replies: 3
Views: 2381

Re: High Sex Drive vs Low Sex Drive

Hi ZacW23, I just wanted to add a different perspective. Personally, I would say I'm in the same situation, but opposite spectrum's. My libido has practically vanished over the past couple years, and my partner has expressed his dissatisfaction with that. The issue though is when he tells me he's un...