Almost all of this has been shared with her, with the exception of the boredom part, because she is liable to take it personally, as if I'm bored with her, as opposed to the simple repetitive action. Staying in the moment usually leads to a sort of empty headedness. When I'm simply making her feel g...

My fiancee and I have been together for over 4 years now, and our sex life is relatively bland. I suffer from ADHD, depression, and anxiety, and having sex is very hard to really do, or even get started. Often times she tries to get me in the mood by putting on some more suggestive material on one o...