I think it’s very much the timing of me finding it out, which was right when my parents split, just blew it up into a really big thing in my brain, much more than it needed to be! Honestly I think it’s only internal development that will put my mind at ease, I’m considering therapy as I think a lot ...

Not particularly, he hasn’t displayed anything that would make me actively worried, which is why it irritates me that it does get to me. In general, he’s much closer with girls than guys and as such most of his closest friends are girls, but he has always treated me differently to all of them, inclu...

Hi there, So I’ve (20F) been in a relationship with my boyfriend (19M) for over a year now and things are going great. The only issue is, we had a fight a couple of months back and despite talking it out and getting to a good place I can’t get it out of my head. Basically, he admitted that he used t...

Hi Alexa, Thanks for the reply, you're right, it can be scary to admit to jealousy, especially as it only seems to be in relation to his past. As you say communicating boundaries is important too, I think it's definitely worth having a conversation with him about why I reacted so badly so he can und...

So I've been with my boyfriend for just over three months, and he's amazing. I love spending time with him and we share lots of similar interests and attitudes. The one major difference between us however is our past experience. He's my first proper boyfriend, and the first person I had sex with, ho...