Right, understood. I know y'all are not healthcare people, but the advice that I have learned on these boards has been super helpful with the questions I should ask when I'm with my doctor! Question, if one can feel their cervix with a finger, how is it supposed to feel?

Yes, I believe it is pretty average; slightly upwards and towards the back of the vaginal canal.

I see! Useful as well. I have noticed, while putting in a tampon for example, the pain is only really present at the entrance of my vagina and my cervix(which feels slightly more narrow and a bit bumpy, I think that's what it is, please correct me if I'm wrong lol). Once the tampon is past the thres...

I see! Useful as well. I have noticed, while putting in a tampon for example, the pain is only really present at the entrance of my vagina and my cervix(which feels slightly more narrow and a bit bumpy, I think that's what it is, please correct me if I'm wrong lol). Once the tampon is past the thres...

Really good advice! I have considered physical therapy before, but I wanted to see if there was anything I could do on my own first. I've been looking at certain stretches and such, but if it still continues to be painful, I may consider physical therapy again. I'll get there!

Hi guys!! Been a minute, eh? Good news, at the age of 20 I figured out how to use a tampon. What a win! Now, at the age of 21, I understand that I still continue to have pain when I attempt to have sex, or explore my body on my own. First, I have attempted to have sex at least once in my life. It hu...

Sighhh, she obviously suggested some kind of physical therapy, which makes sense, but I've been quite busy lately, and before I cram more time for things into my schedule, is there anything I can do for myself right now?

Hi guys! Been awhile. Went from not being able to insert a tampon to questioning if I was into girls (update, I just really like long haired rocker men with guitars)! Nowadays, however, as I've become much more in tune with my inner workings, I definitely wanted to learn more as to why I couldn't in...

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I think that the thing is that I cannot get myself relaxed no matter what, even to put my finger inside. I get very panicked, and usually cry after a few attempts. All I really have to do is learn to relax, with both my finger and my tampon, so I don't know what to do.

I have read that other thread before, and I've tried many different positions when it comes to it. I've never placed my finger in my vagina before (I've never masturbated before, and haven't really seen to do it, even when I am aroused. I've never had sex before either), and I think I'm just afraid ...

Alright so, I need help, big time. My 4th of July has been ruined, due to the fact that I can't insert a tampon. I keep being told to put my finger up there, but part of me is kinda freaked out to do so. When I try to normally insert a tampon, it seems to hit a wall, and it hurts a bit if I try to p...