I'm still nervous about having to tell someone about my sexual experience I don't want to be dishonest but I also don't know when the right time would be to tell someone.

Hello my name is Deja, I'm 24 years old and I'm a virgin. I know to most people its no big deal but it still something I'm deeply ashamed and it's why I don't date much. I have never had a long-term relationship before a mixture of extreme shyness in my teens/early adulthood , and lack of opportunit...

I want to meet new people I am open to it but, I am inexperienced and i feel that might be a turn off for some people which is why I don't date much. Now these days I feel like it's all about sex and most people are not willing to wait. To be honest I don't think anyone will ever be patient enough t...

I honestly I don't know how to feel. Getting hurt has always been the thing that stop from forming those kinds of connections. I saw a lot of friends get hurt after losing their virginities and that only made it harder for me to trust anyone, there are times I'm worried that no one will want to be w...

No only with romantic relationships.

To answer the first question i mean romantic relationships. I do have some trauma in almost trusting someone but other than that I have never given someone my heart completely.

So I'm 23 years old, virgin, and never been in a serious relationship or any kind of commitment really. I was young when I discovered my sexuality and to be honest it scared me a little, it made me questions a number of things about myself. When I finally came to terms with everything truthfully I w...

So because of or age difference I'm scared to be honest with her about it cause I feel like she won't want to wait honestly dating someone older is hard because I feel like at times we come from two different worlds and it can be changeling. Her friends have their concerns about our relationship its...

So I've been dating someone 11 years older than me I'm 23 and she's 34. We met at a party by a mutual friend and began talking and it was great. I was little nervous because I has never dated someone also I had never dated someone older than me but I didn't think about to much because I knew it coul...

So does anyone here think dating has gotten worse over the years, No just me ok then. I mean from social media to dating apps it is impossible to find a real connection with someone. Now don't get me wrong I know tons of people have meet online or by sliding in the DMs but thats not my style. I gues...

I'm trying to have that mindset when it comes to dating believe me but I haven't been on a date ever I 'm a very. nervous person when it comes to dating I'm confident in other aspects of my life but dating and sex were always hard for me. It doesn't come naturally like it does for most I'm to scared...

Well when it comes to sex its a whole other story. I know people say that any decent partner would be happy to have sex with someone who hasn't before but I couldn't understand why? I mean what do they get out of it other than an inexperienced partner who has no idea what they are doing. I don't fee...

Hey boosterseat!! To answer some of your questions I don't know if I'll have a partner or fall in love I mean like you said could I shed my privacy expectations to be in a relationship and trust someone I honestly don't know nor do I do I think I'll figure that out anytime soon. When it comes to ris...

Hello boosterseat, Thanks for the post. I don't think I'm a cynic I think I'm honest which most people don't have the decency to do anymore. I trust and like my friends they tell me deep and personal things I just don't tell them like I said i'm a private person and feelings are tough for me. Now my...

Honestly I don't talk to my friends about this kind of stuff or anybody, i'm a private person so I don't share my feelings and I don't always feel like I have to. Being vulnerable isn't my strong suit letting a complete stranger judge me is not the most romantic thing in the world. There are two typ...

It's something I think about constantly I told myself for a long time that its just wasn't going to happen so I let it go I stopped trying its hard. Online dating scares me I mean I know a lot of people do it but I don't want to meet someone online and I guess that is because of my parents. They met...

So... I have posted a few of these on here and I've been honest through out most of them I do leave details out from time to time buts thats for personal reasons. So now I've just decided to be brutally honest and to put al my feelings into one post so please be nice. I have a lot of trouble with lo...

To be honest is mostly the dating apps that put me off I don't wanna meet someone that way I think its lame. I have never had a girlfriend before so I don't know what to look for even if I did. I miss dating when it was simple it's much more complicated now with apps and social media its nearly impo...

So let me paint you a picture... I'm 23 years old and I'm a tech entrepreneur. I've spent most of my life working which I completely ok with, most of my friends have had real relationships I have not which again is fine, or it is? I work a lot I have several employees and investors and I honestly lo...

I am scared that if I tell her she will be turned off I mean it can happen some people think that taking someones virginity is a huge deal and I don't want her to fell like its her responsibility to make things special even though thats want I want with her something special and romantic but I do't ...

I have always felt like being a virgin was unattractive mostly because I though no one wanted to be with someone inexperienced. I've been dating this girl for some time now she is cute and funny and confident everything I'm not which is why I don't understand why she wants to even date me but, recen...

So kinda like a pros and cons list where I right down what I like and don't like. It makes sense I have always wondered if that could work My therapist also told me to journal down my feelings whenever the though came up I don't see how that helps but I am will to try it.

Yea I guess so, if you have any tips what can some of the first steps to open myself up to more dating possibilities I feel like I don't know what I am doing.

I don't know to be honest I don't know the first step of dating I'm not into online dating call me a romantic but I always though I would meet someone in a coffee shop or bar or just out in the street. I know its not realistic but its just something I though would happen I know COVID kinda prevents ...

If I can ask what type of complications can come up I've never been in a relationship before so I wouldn't know. Also that is the reason I never dated that was my excuse that since my perfect girl wasn't out there I wouldn't have to date.