That seems really helpful too, thanks both of you for the help!

Ok that makes a lot of sense, I think I should focus more on the exploration aspect for a bit. And I read the article, the information about porn and the inclusivity/consent aspect was really helpful, cause I think I viewed it as kind of weird or kind of fake / over the top, but I realised there's a...

Thanks Sam, I'll check out that article! And yeah I think finding a time I can really dedicate to this exploration would really help me, instead of trying to just fit it in in a short period of time. And that last part makes sense too how there's a lot of factors that can influence sex drive, I'll t...

Ok so I don't really know how exactly to explain this fully, but I'll try. I'm 16 almost 17, and I think I started puberty maybe the end of grade 8 / start of grade 9, so I was maybe 14. Anyway I found out about masturbating, and I guess since the hormones were going crazy, anything even remotely ab...