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- Sat May 22, 2021 4:04 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Locker rooms & anxiety
- Replies: 1
- Views: 13439
Locker rooms & anxiety
I got my second shot a little over 2 weeks ago, so things are slowly starting to return to normal. I have a younger sibling who's not yet fully vaccinated so still not completely back to normal (and also just I'm definitely going to be more cautious and try to limit any sort of close encounters with...
- Mon Mar 15, 2021 8:49 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Masturbation
- Replies: 1
- Views: 6517
Masturbation
Generally when I'm masturbating I can get away with just using what I make, but sometimes it'll start to dry out a little, and when that happens I like to pee just enough so that it's slippy again. Is there any reason to not do that? It really turns me on and I can't think of any specific reason it'...
- Sun Feb 14, 2021 6:12 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: HRT with unsupportive(?) parents
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2456
HRT with unsupportive(?) parents
So I recently turned 18 and I can now legally get HRT without my parents' consent, which is good because they don't think it's a good idea (and are only sometimes supportive of me with regards to names/pronouns). The problem is I'm entirely financially dependent on them, but like I don't know how th...
- Tue Dec 15, 2020 8:49 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Bottom Surgery confliction?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7576
Re: Bottom Surgery confliction?
I'll admit I don't know much about the topic, but when I was looking through bottom surgery stuff I found that there's a procedure that will give you a vagina while keeping your penis, it's very creatively called penile-preserving vaginoplasty. I think that that uses scrotal tissue but I'm not a doc...
- Tue Nov 24, 2020 7:19 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Discussing HRT with parents
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3544
Re: Discussing HRT with parents
That's probably a good idea about avoiding that particular subject for now. Unfortunately I'll probably need to discuss that at some point because that's expensive, but I guess I'll cross that bridge when I get there. As for the chest dysphoria, I think they just will straight up not believe me and ...
- Mon Nov 23, 2020 7:32 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Discussing HRT with parents
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3544
Discussing HRT with parents
I'm pretty nervous about talking to my parents about starting HRT. For one, if they ask me why I want to, I don't think answering with the whole truth will go too well. The main reason I want to start HRT is that I have pretty bad chest dysphoria, but I worry that my parents (who I think still see m...
- Wed Nov 11, 2020 2:32 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Friendships during covid and trust issues
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2502
Friendships during covid and trust issues
So this is something I've been struggling with for a while and I don't know where else to go with this. I am discussing parts of this with my therapist but I'm still not fully comfortable with him yet so I needed a place to ask for advice more or less anonymously. Background information: I'm a senio...
- Sun Nov 08, 2020 11:39 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Queer Platonic relationships
- Replies: 1
- Views: 5064
Re: Queer Platonic relationships
More than friends but not fully romantic is an okay definition of a QPR, but I wouldn't use it personally because I don't like the implication that qprs and romance is more important than friendship. I'd say a better definition is a committed (though not necessarily exclusive) long-term relationship...
Bathrooms
I'm agender, and while I'd love to be able to use gender-neutral bathrooms, it's not always doable. There aren't any at my school (save staff ones, which you have to get special permission to use from the counseling office, are at the back end of beyond, and you'll often get questioned). They also a...
- Fri Oct 30, 2020 9:22 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Weird things about affection
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2371
Weird things about affection
So I am a very physically affectionate person, as are my friends, we (at least pre-COVID we did) spend a lot of our time together cuddling and almost always greet each other with hugs and "love you"s and so on and so forth. Lately, I've noticed that I've wanted to do things with them that ...
- Wed Oct 21, 2020 3:21 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Fantasies and ethics
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3390
Fantasies and ethics
I have a bunch of fantasies involving being outside and I think I could conceivably follow through on one of them, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea or entirely ethical. Basically I want to masturbate outside, and like not in my backyard or something, but a more open area. I have a spot in mind, ...
- Tue Sep 01, 2020 2:52 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Anxiety about the future
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3896
Anxiety about the future
Some background information: I'm a senior in high school, we probably won't be back to in-person learning until after I graduate, I'm aromantic and polyamorous. I'm also non-binary, I have several squishes (all unreciprocated), and want to go on E at some point but can't at the moment because my par...
- Thu Aug 06, 2020 11:00 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Penis Insecurities
- Replies: 5
- Views: 3796
Re: Penis Insecurities
First of all, that article has been really helpful. I intend to push back next time they bring it up, though it probably won't come up for a while because we're all stuck inside and. I want to go along the lines of "this is just how my body is, you guys saying things like that are really causin...
- Sun Aug 02, 2020 11:47 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Penis Insecurities
- Replies: 5
- Views: 3796
Re: Penis Insecurities
Thanks for the reply! I would love some help figuring out how to bring that up, and also how to unlearn some of the stuff I've been taught about sex. I've avoided confronting my parents seriously about it because whenever I say they're being unreasonable I usually get something like "too bad&qu...
- Fri Jul 31, 2020 7:31 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Penis Insecurities
- Replies: 5
- Views: 3796
Penis Insecurities
As the subject says, I've had some insecurities with my equipment. I'm about 8.5 inches hard and it's made life a pain. Everything I do and everywhere I go I'm worried that people are staring at my bulge. Whenever I hear laughing at school or in public I always think that it's because the outline is...