Okay, could you please delete my account then? I don’t anticipate using the message boards/account anymore and having this account is causing me a lot of stress.

I appreciate you making this exception. Thank you.

Hi, Looking back on my past topics and this account is really triggering for me - the information/problems in them is really stressing me. I would like to be able to use the message boards but I am really mortified by my past posts. Can you please delete either all my topics/posts, or this account? ...

Thanks for the advice! I decided to wait until I talk to him a couple of times before I ask him out. But I do appreciate the articles. They're really helpful

Hi, So at my new school there's this guy I think is really cute - he's in only one class with me but he's pretty popular and hot in my opinion. I haven't talked to him much yet but I'd like to get to know him... The thing is, I've never been much of a flirt (I'd like to be - I'm adapting more of a g...

Thank you very much. Your reply was exactly what I needed to hear. I really appreciate it - I am feeling much more valid now.

So I'm genderfluid, and I'm still really confused about my gender. I'll just give some info on how I normally feel - or at least, have felt in the past. Last year, I'd say 60% of the time, I felt like a female/fem, 30% like nonbinary/neutral/agender, and 10% like a dude/really masculine. Then there ...

Thanks, that article is perfect. I used a similar format to one of the suggestions in it and I hope E will understand.

—- please don’t think I’m heartless; I just don’t want some person I don’t really know trying to make plans with me nonstop —- Here’s the story: I just moved, and I used to live here so I know a few people. This one guy - we can call him “E” - is someone who I used to hang out with at my old school....

Thanks for giving me some things to think about. She seems to be in a better place luckily, so I’m not stressing over the situation anymore.

So a girl I’ve known since I was really young has been doing some pretty sketchy things lately. I’m not really close with her anymore, but I still care about her and want her to be okay but lately I’m really worried for her and so are her parents. She’s doing a lot of pornographic content on some di...

Hey, so at some point I’d like to get tested for STDs/STIs and I just wanted to know how that process works for a person with female genitalia. Are there different testing methods for vaginal STDs and oral ones? (I really don’t know, but I feel silly for asking all this stuff.) Also how frequently s...

Hi so I’m going to make this short but basically I’m moving back to where I lived before COVID due to a lot of personal reasons. I’m actually looking forward to being back there, for the most part. Except I don’t have any friends there. And my (currently) closest friends are at the school that I jus...

Okay, the article is really helpful for me. Thanks!
I will check out the Reddit and won’t use the dating sites intended for adults.

Yeah, now that I’ve had some time to process my feelings, I’ve realized that, like you said, it’s about me wanting to be desired and more jealous that he has people to flirt with over the summer and I don’t. But I’ve also realized (and I’m proud to say it) that I am happy for him and I want the best...

So I don't really try to meet people online... but I figured since I'm interested in casual dating and I'm not at school yet, maybe I could try online dating? I am really concerned about my safety on the internet. I use fake birthdays and don't reveal all my info, and try to background check who I t...

Hi, So my friend and I used to date for 10 months. We broke up at the end of the school year and agreed to stay friends. We haven’t texted much but that’s okay - I needed space. It was mutual and I’m over him now. But he just texted in our group chat about that he was just rejected by someone else. ...

Thanks for the reply - it really made me less conflicted/confused. Your points about being bi/pan in a high school situation really helped me out. I agree, as long as the girls I date know it's casual, then it should be fine. It's just hard because I've actually never been on a casual date before, s...

Hi, so I'm genderfluid and pansexual. I'm also single (having a 'hot girl summer' and working on myself, but also interested in trying to date again) since school is going to start up again soon, I either want to a.) date around or b.) have a serious relationship. And when it comes down to it, I gue...

Alright, thanks. I’ll keep an eye on it.

Hi so there’s a weird lump thing on my vagina that showed up about five days ago - a actually directly above it where my pubic hair is - and it was pretty big. It was on the outside, but part of it felt internal if that makes sense…. like a ball but only part of it was exposed. There was a red dot t...

Thanks, I'll try to figure out what works best for my condition. When I finger myself, there seems to be an issue, but the one successful time my friend (ex, now best friend) fingered me I didn't feel weird. I was turned on that time. I do have trouble figuring out what works best for me, in terms o...

Thanks for the empathy and the suggestions. I will definitely try to find members of the school community to help me with my initiative, and I just met with a friend today who wanted to help. Hopefully slowly but steadily this can provide education for the homophobes and support for the members of t...

So I have been masturbating for several years now but I’ve only done clitoral stimulation and never used a sex toy (unless my pillow counts). I would really like to try to go inside my vagina but every time I try I’m either too dry, too tight, or I almost pass out. (I have a condition called Vasovag...

Everything is better now... it’s summer so I don’t have to think about it until fall. Most people in my class support me and the rest avoid me so I guess that’s fine…? At least my friends are cool about it. Rant time: I’m really angry the school hasn’t done anything. I suggested that the teachers se...

Thanks for all the advice! Totally makes sense. I’m just bummed Covid is still affecting my life so much. I used to be so introverted but finally I want to meet people, go dancing, go to parties, etc…. and I can’t because of restrictions! Argh. How can I find opportunities to meet people despite this?