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- Sat Sep 30, 2023 7:13 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Telling my parents about my new girlfriend
- Replies: 1
- Views: 20662
Telling my parents about my new girlfriend
so i've been dating this girl for uh...a few weeks, but we've basically u-hauled lol, our dates tend to end up being 20+ hours, i said no hookups and she said nothing serious but we jumped into both sex and emotional intimacy whiplash-fast (it's fine i promise), i'm so into her and i think she feels...
- Mon May 22, 2023 5:28 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: everybody's lonely - why is it so hard to date?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 6093
everybody's lonely - why is it so hard to date?
i'm a 20-year-old college student, currently at home in suburbia for summer break. my dating history is basically a series of messy situationships with close friends, but i'm kind of between friendship groups at the moment, so i've been trying to date online. it's a nightmare. i get plenty of attent...
- Mon Jun 14, 2021 12:37 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: What's your favorite outfit?
- Replies: 24
- Views: 32926
Re: What's your favorite outfit?
tall, stompy doc martens, high-waisted, ripped black skinny jeans, cuffed to show off my fun socks (i don't care that they're out, i will never abandon skinny jeans), oversized men's white tshirt with a keith haring drawing (the one with two people holding up a heart), faux leather jacket with pins ...
- Fri May 28, 2021 7:47 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I don't know if I'm bi or lesbian?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 16734
Re: I don't know if I'm bi or lesbian?
You're very young, and it sounds like your sexuality is just beginning to develop, so you may not know for some years, and that's okay - most people don't date at your age, anyway. But I want to leave you with one piece of advice that has helped me and a lot of my friends with the same question (bi ...
- Thu Jan 21, 2021 2:24 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: kink
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3778
kink
So, I've been curious about kink for a long time, ever since I first learned about it when I was maybe 13. But since I was underage, I wasn't really able to be a part of kink communities, and for good reason. The brushes I did have with real-life exploration of it were pretty exploitative. But now t...
- Wed Jan 20, 2021 5:02 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: sex education (the tv show)
- Replies: 2
- Views: 16111
sex education (the tv show)
so this is the first time i've posted a non-advice question, and i know it's from like 2 years ago, but i'm curious to hear what actual sex educators and other people interested in the topic think about the show sex education. i think, beyond being a funny and generally good show, it's a pretty inte...
- Tue Dec 29, 2020 8:55 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: i think i'm just not made for hookups
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2560
Re: i think i'm just not made for hookups
yeah, i might try to be friends i guess. after a while, i think i would feel weird seeing him again right now - i actually told him i was gonna be away, lol. and you're right, i think most people aren't happy with "hookup culture", even people who do hookups. weird how "friends with b...
- Mon Dec 28, 2020 11:26 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: i think i'm just not made for hookups
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2560
i think i'm just not made for hookups
so i've had sex or done sexual things a few times in my life, always with a friend or someone i was dating. but i've been feeling super bored and reckless lately, and i'm recently 18, and about a week ago i decided to find someone online to hook up with. we ended up getting high and having sex in a ...
- Fri Dec 04, 2020 2:05 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: my friend is probably bi and a little in denial
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3230
my friend is probably bi and a little in denial
so i've had this...friend...for over a year, we've always flirted and in the summer we made out a few times but now we're "just friends" again, who knows what'll happen in the future, i'm not pressed abt it but there's the backstory. you know it's a good relationship when it takes a paragr...
- Wed Oct 21, 2020 9:14 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Not a pregnancy scare just a question
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2869
Re: Not a pregnancy scare just a question
What about cases where a woman gets pregnant late in life and assumes she is going through menopause? Wasn't there a reality show called "I didn't know I was pregnant", and most of the episodes were like that? Not that a reality show is a great source for facts about... anything, but it se...
- Sat Aug 29, 2020 9:38 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2373
Re: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
thanks. honestly, reading that article and imagining saying any of that stuff to him made me realize that we're just not at that point quite yet. in the past, i've been in the habit of just letting things happen, and the fact that it's gonna be up to me this time might be good. it was helpful to tal...
- Fri Aug 28, 2020 6:02 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2373
Re: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
yeah, see, this is the problem. it's hard for me to bring that sort of thing up, especially in an undefined relationship like this. to talk about something like that would be to break the sort of plausible deniability we've maintained and admit i'm quite invested. i also don't want to come off as cr...
- Fri Aug 28, 2020 11:39 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2373
guy i'm seeing doesn't initiate anything
so, i'm 17, and this guy i've being talking to is 19. i'm not a "virgin" by any meaning of the word (except the archaic meaning "maiden"), but the handful of experiences i've had were initiated by the other person. most were entirely consensual, but i'm just not used to being in ...