Update: So, last night, he came out about a past possible trauma while a bit tispy (he wanted to drink, i stayed sober to keep an eye on him (were both 21). And i am doing my best to convince him to see a therapist about it. I think there is a connection between the possible trauma and the urges. Ma...

He says its more like an irge than a wanting to do it, and he always feels extremely guilty afterwards, so much so to cry about it (hes not a guy that cries too much). The past year, i have been thinking of ways to get around it, such as three person relationships (mmf) which he says he is not inter...

This is gonna be a long one, so buckle up, grab some popcorn, and do what you do: Some background info. I have been with an amazing man for an upcoming two years, some of the most amazing years in my life so far. Was madly in love and felt like the world couldnt get brighter. We got along on so many...