I think you have to go at your own pace, if that makes sense. So if something hurts or feels uncomfortable, then take a step back and don't force it. And if something feels good and pleasurable, you can lean into it and explore that instead. Sexual experiences are different for everyone and there's ...

That sounds perfect! You're welcome.

Yep, it is! And that's great. Just log in on Sunday using the link Elise shared!

Hi! To answer the first of your questions - yep, it's at an angle. There are walls you need to "work around" as you go in, just like you described. I'm linking two articles we have with descriptions and photos of sexual anatomy so you can see what I mean: Innies & Outies: The Vagina, C...

Yep, it's normal to feel like there's something coming in between you and an orgasm, so to speak. Many people experience this and it's a combination of the technique being used and a mental barrier, both which can take some time and patiente to work through. If your technique has always worked for y...

Nice to meet you too! <3 And I can see how that can seem dismissive, for sure. I'm glad she's not mad at you, but I want you to know that I echo Mo, Urna and Elise in saying that what he does to you does count as sexual assault. It seems like you got a chance to chat with Mo on our chat platform, so...

Oh I'm glad you got a chance to talk to her. Dismissive how? And how are you feeling after your conversation?

Hi page, welcome to the boards! What you are describing is not abnormal, actually, and you're not alone in it. While yes, many people who are asexual do have the ability to feel sexually aroused, others don't! Buying a vibrator might help, but it also might just be frustrating, if it's not actually ...

Oh, I am so sorry that you went through that. I can understand completely and trust me, not every guy is like that! Your new boyfriend sounds like he's very understanding and also mature. It might be good to have an open and honest conversation where you tell him all of this (as much as you're comfo...

I like him, he made wonderful points! :D definitely try to see someone soon, with these things it's always better to know as soon as possible. It might help, in the meantime, to focus on the fact that *if* you did get reinfected, everything is going to be okay! Your boyfriend will be supportive (esp...

Hi theatreluvin! I'm so glad to hear you're happy in your new relationship!! While vaginal secretions are normal, I understand for some people it can feel embarassing, especially around someone you like. Rest assured it's nothing to be ashamed of! It sounds like your partner is pretty understanding ...

Hi nyxoxo, I'm so sorry you're having all this stress and anxiety around this situation. I was wondering if you'd had a chance to read Sam's response on your last post? She explained the risk part pretty well (it's unlikely you passed it back to him since you were done with your treatment, however s...

Hi! First off I want to acknowledge that you're taking the time to respectfully ask and make sure your actions won't be offensive and that's important. As a person of color, I appreciate you checking before doing something that might be appropriation. In this case, yes, a hijab-style head wrap would...

Hi Winter, welcome to the boards! That does sound pretty confusing and I can understand why you're hesitant to say anything. The truth is, there's no way to know if our crush likes us back unless we ask or they tell us. That's what's so complicated about relationships--communication is key, and some...

Don't be embarassed, these are all normal feelings to have and you're not doing anything wrong. As Val explained, "The intention someone has with their content or their body is what facilitates the concept of consent. A nude model may be consenting to you drawing them in an art class but not ne...

I'm SO glad to hear that!! And I will pass the message along to everyone who contributed to this thread

What do you mean you feel like it's wrong since you can't ask? Can you elaborate on that?
But yes--it's okay to have those feelings!

Kudos to you for being so mature about this, you're handling this really well, truly! I hope you are able to continue down this road of trust building and healthy communication. If you need to ask anything, vent/update us, you can always post in this thread again <3

That's totally fine, go at your own pace. I just want you to be able to express your feelings when you feel ready to, so you can know if you're on the same page and see what step to take next.

That makes sense, and trust takes time to build back up after you feel it's been broken. What he did does sound like a mistake he acknowledges and wants to be better at being honest with you, so that's good. I would say here you have to think about what is more valuable, this situation or your relat...

Absolutely! You are always welcome to post in this thread at any time.

I hope that works out with your dad taking you, it would be really nice to be able to drive by and wave to show you're there for him! You could try to talk to his parents about it if you think it'll actually be a productive conversation. From the sounds of it, they aren't the most supportive parents...

Have you tried to talk to him about it, maybe letting him know you're interested? If not, how do you think he'd react? It might be good to have a conversation with him and see how he feels.

Hi milkybarlife, nice to hear from you! I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother passing but I'm also really glad it was a beautiful experience and a teaching moment. In regards to your relationship, I want to give you kudos and a virtual hug because you're doing great in such a difficult situat...

If you feel like you can move past it because you know she didn't mean to hurt you or make it an uncomfortable situation for you, then you don't HAVE to talk to her. But if you feel this is bothering you a lot, then like I said, it's okay and important for you to express your feelings and let her kn...