TW: suicidality, emotional abuse, manipulation I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years. I’m 21 years old. When I started college, I became suicidal and there were lots of reasons for it—my mother had been emotionally abusive to me, and being away from that for the first time meant I was really start...

Verbal affirmations and physical contact in daily interactions are both important for me to feel desired, but primarily I require quality time spent together—dates, both casual and formal, and of course sex. Quarantine has made it really difficult to get out and do things together, both because so m...

Typically I describe how I’m feeling, and he is often apologetic but he says he doesn’t know what to do. In the past I’ve tried stepping back and letting him initiate sex, because I thought that his guilt over rejecting me might be contributing to the problem. But in the end it just meant that we di...

If anyone is into historical fiction featuring WLW, Fingersmith by Sarah Waters is a fantastic rewriting of a work of classic Victorian sensationalism (the Woman in White). It’s definitely a bit mature, and it includes some heavy themes, but I loved it! Sarah Waters has also written a bunch of other...

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. I’m 21 and he is 22. We live with each other and a couple of friends. I love him very much and believe he also loves me. In the past we’ve had really great sex and we communicate about it clearly during and after. When we have had sex in the past...