Hey Sabine! I wanted to say something even though I'm a little late to this conversation because I can feel how stressed out you are about this and I can feel how much you want all of this to work out and I really relate to that because I have felt that way in relationships and with crushes! Somethi...

Juliet Takes a Breath by Gabby Rivera, about a queer Puerto Rican teenager from the Bronx who does a summer internship with a writer, is my absolute favorite book in this category. It's political without ever being dogmatic or preachy or absolutist; it's deeply positive while also being extremely re...

Hey pokipie! One thought that I had is that if you sometimes have a bathroom to yourself (without roommates or family needing to use it) you could try masturbating in the shower or in the tub so that you don't have to worry about getting anything wet. I've experienced what you're talking about (incl...