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- Tue Oct 13, 2020 2:18 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
Re: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
Thank you, I will try that, it sounds like it would help!
- Mon Oct 12, 2020 6:10 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
Re: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
Thank you both! I will try to avoid the worry of unreciprocated feelings, although I don't know if that will totally do it or not? But the next time I notice myself doing it I'll try to not just shove it down automatically? Both of those appeal to me, I'm not specifically looking for a dating app to...
- Mon Oct 12, 2020 12:40 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
Re: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
I am open to online spaces, I just have no idea where to find any to just talk to people my age that have a culture I feel comfortable in (a lot of teen spaces feel awkward for me for some reason). I'm not sure what would happen if I allowed the feeling to run its course, I feel like it could develo...
- Sun Oct 11, 2020 6:36 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
Re: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
I just... I want to be in a relationship, but currently there is nobody I can think of I want to be in one with, and even if their was, I don't know anything I could do to initiate one, so I just generally feel bad about it.
- Sun Oct 11, 2020 11:43 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
Re: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
Thank you for the response. I would like to talk about pandemic friendly ways of making new connections, I find I am having trouble talking to people (even ones I go to school with) and communicating with them. Before the pandemic, I only really interacted with other kids at school, sometimes over t...
- Sat Oct 10, 2020 1:20 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
Re: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
I also feel like I would be happy in a polyamorous relationship, but I do not know, as I have never been in a monogamous or polyamorous relationship before. I apologize if this is the wrong place to talk about this issue, it's just something that I worry about a lot.
- Sat Oct 10, 2020 11:36 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: I'm worried about romantic attraction.
- Replies: 12
- Views: 10174
I'm worried about romantic attraction.
So, I'm ace, and I feel I am panromantic, but recently I've been thinking about it. I sometimes feel like I have a strong desire to be around a person, and I feel like if I was in a relationship with a person I could easily learn to love them, but I just don't feel that around many people? I want to...
- Wed Oct 07, 2020 3:59 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
Bye! And there are some other things I want to talk about on here, but they aren't relevant to this section, so I might end up posting something in another one.
- Wed Oct 07, 2020 3:02 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
Is there a way I could communicate that to a person without derailing the conversation or offending their feelings?
- Wed Oct 07, 2020 2:53 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
I kind of would like to. Guilt over being male (well, toxic masculinity in general, but this is one specific part of that) has led to a lot of bad stuff in my life. When I was eleven, I got really into "anti-sjw" stuff, because I was angry at people saying men sucked and that outlet provid...
- Wed Oct 07, 2020 2:30 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
I don't think it was sexual assault, I was saying I didn't know whether to think of it as sexual harassment or not. I have talked to a therapist in the past, although I had difficulties with mine and did not know how to bring it up (I tried talking about things that were bothering me and felt like I...
- Wed Oct 07, 2020 10:14 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
The people who say that stuff to me are usually strangers or people I don't really know. However, I do occasionally hear it from female friends, usually when they are venting to me about a bad breakup or interaction or something. I can leave spaces where I don't feel welcome, but it is the "one...
- Wed Oct 07, 2020 5:56 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
Sorry, accidentally clicked submit on a draft.
- Tue Oct 06, 2020 6:37 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
I feel afraid to talk to the people who say these things about it as it usually comes from a place where they are either punching up, or occasionally venting at me. I am nervous that if I derail a conversation that is mostly positive and about people acting in solidarity or supporting each other wit...
- Tue Oct 06, 2020 5:25 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
Re: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
I feel afraid to talk to the people who say these things about it as it usually comes from a place where they are either punching up, or occasionally venting at me. I am nervous that if I derail a conversation that is mostly positive and about people acting in solidarity or supporting each other wit...
- Tue Oct 06, 2020 3:48 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
- Replies: 15
- Views: 10945
I'm having trouble not feeling guilt about my gender.
So, hi everyone. I'm new here. I am here because I've been having a lot of trouble lately. I'm trying to feel good about being male, but I keep feeling guilty. There's a narrative that has been going on for a long time about men just being the worst, and, while I understand on a logical level that i...