Hi Luc thanks for your reply I completely understand I know this is something I have to deal with as I am scared it will effect future relationships. it means a lot that you are rooting for me and supporting me :) gives me hope in my self I tend to have a bad habit of researching a lot which makes t...

Hi sorry for the late reply, thank you both Mo and Elise I will definitely look into these, yes unfortunately for the time being I have had to put my counselling on hold at the moment hopefully my anxiety will be manageable :) I am just trying to block the thoughts out and get on with everyday life ...

One more thing sorry Elise even if I was ovulating and any of those incidents occur any time in my life it still wouldn’t result in a pregnancy would it ? I know of course and available egg needs to be in place for pregnancy to occur

Hi Elise :) I appreciate you taking time to reply to my post, yes unfortunately I am still dealing with this and its horrible as it effects relationships to, scared it will effect relationships in the future Thank you for the links, I do continuously read these posts as reassurance they work for a w...

Hi all. I Know i have come on here alot in forms of asking for reassurance etc and i do know the policy on asking regarding pregnancy scares what I am going to ask is not due to a pregnancy scare since my last post on her my anxiety around pre cum has just gotten worse Ive been trying with my therap...

Hi heather Thanks for that I have given that a read I do understand how it works And I’m not sure how to deal with the fear sometimes just being in contact with a man scares me as I don’t know where his hands have been even if he has pre cum on his hands maybe god knows from where it scares me and s...

Hi heather Thank you for that I understand but it’s hard to let go of such thoughts unfortunately I’m just so scared of pre cum or cum that some how it’s gunna make it’s way into me and get me pregnant When pre cum is soaked In a guys boxers does it die ? Or is it still active if it is touched by th...

Hi Sam Yes I have mentioned it to her , we did work our way round it by dealing with the scenario head on and just saying what I’m thinking out loud and how silly it sounds I just hope I’m able to over come this because in the future it’s going to stop me from becoming intimate with a man as I am so...

Hi Sam Thank you for replying ah okay I understand what sort of environment does it need is it it’s own fluids ? What about places like sinks , toilets etc cuz they are wet would they survive there ? So if you did have pre cum on your hands without realising it wouldn’t matter ? And like let’s say y...

Hi there ! Hope all is well I have a question regarding pre cum that a guy may leak when he is aroused, If for example a guy may touch his penis outside of his pants or inside his pants when aroused to adjust it and just casually sits next to a girl and may for example start touching her clothes or ...

As I of course told her I some how believe I can get pregnant through clothes and I don’t feel like my mind can rest etc, what helped was saying it out loud so for example like agreeing with the anxiety and OCD so of course it sounds really unrealistic and impossible and just makes you want to not b...

Hi Heather I appreciate your reply, Firstly yes I know I have asked similar question before since that time I can’t seem to get rid of the anxiety I have not engaged in any dry humping since that incident as it make me Really stressed out to be honest I wouldn’t call it dry humping as I just sat on ...

Hi there , i have a question so firstly I know dry humping fully clothed does not pose pregnancy risk, my question is would the pre cum if a guy has any go through his pants causing the girls clothes to be wet ? Would she have to change her underwear etc to prevent any form of STI if there is any ri...

Hi Sian Thanks for replying again, I have indeed read that article I believe one of the volunteers already posted it on here but thank you again :) it did give me an wider picture on the situation and made me feel not alone and feel like I’m the only one going through this, And yes it’s what I have ...

Yes it defo does help a lot :) has made me feel better so thank you and thank You for all your help to all the staff/volunteers replying to my posts really appreciate it :) Yes I have been thinking of doing that when I see her next week I’ll drop her a text or email it will make me feel better Hopef...

Hiya Sam thank you for that article I gave it a read and it’s nice to know there’s other people out there going through the same thing if not similar I don’t feel so alone ! I felt so crazy for feeling like this but turns out a lot of people feel this way. Referring to the situation with my therapis...

Tbh Sam I agree with you I feel like it’s a punishment at times I grow up In a religious family where your taught no sex before marriage of course I agree with that and it’s something I wouldn’t do, then again lack of education and understanding how pregnancy really happens I just feel like sperm or...

Yes honestly I feel like doing another test I don’t even know why I’m scared I didn’t do the other one properly and it’s scaring me so I will probally end up doing another one to be sure which is annoying, and thank you for the anxiety website I will check it out , and yes I have read the pregnancy ...

I have not yet no, I have another appointment with her next week so I will defo do it then as it is just killing me mentally :( I don’t know what it is gunna take for me to be calm, I feel like I need to do another pregnancy test which is just bazaar right ? My next period is due in 5 days and I’m s...

:cry: I’m just scared that maybe I didn’t do the test right even though of course there was no need for me to do the test anyways right ? Because what I described had no pregnancy risk , I’m trying to stay calm by just thinking nothing happened it’s all fine like I said both fully clothed I even had...

Hmmm okayy because when I started re searching there was one website that was so persistent that you can some how get pregnant this way even if there is a clothes barrier between both partners so it just confused me even more I didn’t know which information to believe when I think of it logically it...

Yes I think it will be good too because it’s something that will affect my future, okay I know thanks for the reassurance but why do some websites say it’s possible ?

Is it actually ? Hmmm I did not know that , I feel like it sounds crazy so she might think what a crazy thing to say but I do plan to bring it up in my next meeting with her, Even tho I’ve done the pregnancy tests I still feel uneasy for somereason ☹️ Because I’ve been reading other sources which sa...

I had a session with her but I couldn’t bring it up just felt so embarrassed :( I eventually did the tests both negative as per I thought they would be but I needed that clarification to know it was nothing but I got rid of all the tests but I feel like I may have left some thing in the bathroom eve...

Hi sam, No I have not spoken to her regarding this as I feel too embarrassed to bring it up as it sounds silly and crazy, we are working on my anxiety slowly slowly so hopefully there will be an improvement, Yes me and my therapist have been working on ways to calm my anxiety I don’t want to take a ...