Thanks so much!! And I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend anyone if I did I was just trying to make a point and got lost for words. But thank you for the advice.

Okay.....so I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 18, we have been together since the 22nd of January of 2014. He is one of those guys and I also, that thinks of sex in a relationship as a "BONUS". So it's not that crucial for us to have it but when we want to its nice to know that we don't...