It’s something that I want, and haven’t been able to achieve so I was asking if it was normal not to be able to achieve this. Especially the little bits of skin I wanted to know if that was normal and healthy. As for lube I don’t have anything water based to use so I haven’t tried that, and I haven’...

I wouldn’t really call it a change, I feel like I’ve never been able to, so i don’t think it could be stress related. It’s always been a little painful, bearable, but not pleasurable, when I’ve tried, but the last 2 times, I’ve also noticed that tiny bits of skin have come off. Could the problem be ...

I posted this like, a couple years ago, but i haven’t really made any progress. I’ve tried porn, but i really don’t like that, and i tried like erotic stories and audiobooks but i just couldn’t get into them. I do have a gynecologist now, but we’ve never had any kind of physical exam or anything. I ...

That’s a good idea. Maybe it’s better to just listen rather than watch. I have adhd too, and I didn’t even think about that affecting this lol.

I tried porn once, but it was more distracting than just trying to do it on my own. It somehow seemed cheesy and I ended up laughing at it lol. Idk what else I’d use of if it would be the same problem.

Most of the time I start out pretty turned on but it pretty much goes away once I start trying to masturbate. I’ll try and see about going to a gynecologist but i think that would be hard right now anyway, with the whole covid thing.

I did try using a mirror, but I wasn’t aroused, so I will try again another time. When it comes to masturbating, what i feel is at most a tickling sensation, there’s nothing really pleasurable about it. I also don’t have a gynecologist. The only time i mentioned seeing one my mom said I don’t need t...

It’s basically like I’ve said. I think i just have a large hood and a small clit, but i can’t find it to touch that when I try to masturbate, and penetration with my fingers hurts so that won’t work. I read some of the articles here and tried again with the methods in them but I can’t seem to find a...