I guess Questioning is quite a good label, so I’ll use that for people who I tell, if ever. Good to know that about orgasms too, I guess I’ll be patient there as well. It’s probably worth noting that wanking does maintain the erection - if I stop it goes down again - so I guess I’m doing something r...

I think you’re right that a label would be restrictive if anything here. I guess it’d make me feel better having a fixed identity, ‘this is who I am’ kinda thing, which is human nature. I think I just need to be patient, and when I figure things out, I’ll pick a label, even if it doesn’t represent m...

I did look into demisexual, and I guess it could be, but I’m not sure - I think I’d have to have an actual relationship to figure it out. The thought of dressing like a girl almost always if not always gives me a boner, but I simultaneously it feels like a feel-good kind of thing, so maybe it exists...

Here’s my current feelings: I’m 14, straight, and male. However, I’d really like to wear a skirt - in fact a full outfit, panties and a bra with water balloons in it, skirt and blouse, socks and shoes, maybe a wig and some makeup, and a black leather collar, locked with a padlock. See, I’m also a bd...

Yeah, I guess the reason she’s not interested in me is pretty much irrelevant. We do have a relationship as friends which is fun, and I do enjoy spending time with her. I suppose if all I need to do is keep living my life and let my feelings naturally change then that’s fine, but perhaps I could for...

Hi, I'm Sam, still 14, haven't posted here in a while. A few months ago I met a girl. After a few weeks I realised I had a crush on her. That very same day it came up in conversation that she's gay. This would've been fine, but then I was misinformed (unintentionally) that she was actually bi, which...

Hi! I only felt comfortable saying all that stuff because I'm more or less anonymous here. "not being healthy" is what people say online, to be in that kind of relationship at a young age. Your advice in the second paragraph was pretty helpful, thanks! Honestly I think the reason I can't c...

In the following post I am both seeking advice and getting off my chest information I've never disclosed to anyone. I really feel a need to release what I've kept secret for years, so I'd appreciate you (the reader) quickly reading my story as well as answering my question. Also having the backgroun...

Hi, Thanks for answering. By getting involved I mean literally anything to sate my own desires. Like I said, they’ve been getting much stronger, and I don’t think pushing them down or ignoring them is the best option. I did start reading erotica last year, which kind of worked but I want to do somet...

Since the age of 8 (although obviously it was very small back then) I have had a slowly but surely developing interest in BDSM. Now at 13 it's stronger than ever and I really, really want to.. get involved. The thing is, I'm really worried about damaging myself mentally by doing things at this age, ...

I was 99% sure that was it. Thanks!

Yup, that's pretty much what I do, I haven't explored much further than that because I don't really know what I'm doing, I just know in theory that it can lead to an orgasm, and I know in theory that orgasms feel good, and want to experience that. Thanks for the article - I will look into it!

I cut some of my pubic hair back with scissors, and I'm worried it's not growing back. It was my first time, so to be safe I stayed a good centimetre away from the root, but it's not growing back. I want it short right now, but I also want the option to grow it long again. Is there any chance it won...

Hi, I'm Sam, I'm 13 years old. After years of it being a 'slow burn' with not much happening, puberty is finally accelerating, and I'm eager to explore my sexuality, namely by wanking, but it doesn't seem to be leading anywhere; I don't get any pleasure from it, and have never climaxed, so I'm wonde...