Thanks- I will try to give myself a break and not push too hard or compare my experience to anyone else's. And maybe the exploring in a more general way is a good place to start. Appreciate your help!

Thanks. I think you're probably right that my body/brain might need more time. And I think that's a good point about giving myself permission to stop- I usually get frustrated with myself when it does feel "meh" because I feel like it shouldn't. I'll work on being gentler with myself in th...

Sure thing. Well, I grew up in a family that never talked about sex (I’m 20 now and to this day neither of my parents have ever had a single conversation about sex with me). My mom always told me it was something dirty that adults do and I shouldn’t think about it. When I was a young teenager, I ask...

Hey!! Thank you guys for all the awesome work you do. I've always had a hard time masturbating. Up until earlier this year, I never even touched my genitals (I'm a person with a vulva) just because I was so nervous and uncomfortable about it. I think I definitely had a lot of big mental blocks and s...