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by JohnathanWorm
Tue Feb 16, 2021 6:43 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Is he my transition goals? or am I attracted? I think it's both?
Replies: 3
Views: 2771

Re: Is he my transition goals? or am I attracted? I think it's both?

hmmm, im not sure about it. I think it's quite a vague fear to be honest. But when i imagine, like being in a relationship with someone with the same general features as me (short, white, floofy brown hair, roundish facial features), it just seems unsettling and weird. Like im afraid of dating a clo...
by JohnathanWorm
Tue Feb 16, 2021 4:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Is he my transition goals? or am I attracted? I think it's both?
Replies: 3
Views: 2771

Is he my transition goals? or am I attracted? I think it's both?

Hello, peeps So I'm a young trans man who's been out for about 7 months at this point. I've also been introspective about my sexuality and am confident about being bisexual, but being mainly into other guys. There's a problem though. I know that I'm attracted to these guys, but I also find myself wa...
by JohnathanWorm
Mon Feb 08, 2021 3:12 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable
Replies: 7
Views: 4305

Re: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable

Hey Sam,

If you have any resources you think could be useful that'd be pretty neat. I think that my religious upbringing has affected the way i view my attraction to people.
by JohnathanWorm
Mon Feb 08, 2021 2:54 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable
Replies: 7
Views: 4305

Re: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable

Hey Ruby, woah that's a lot of really cool information, tysm! I've been somewhat interested in DBT before, and i'll definitely look into it some more. I definitely resonate with having more empathy for myself. And the idea of what kind of relationship examples i've had. My parents have a pretty toxi...
by JohnathanWorm
Sun Feb 07, 2021 1:41 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable
Replies: 7
Views: 4305

Re: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable

Hey, thanks for replying, sorry its been a few days. while i have discussed these feelings (the black and white thinking and stuff) with my school psychologist for example, we haven't had a chance to work on it. As it has only been a short amount of time since i've become aware of that mindset and d...
by JohnathanWorm
Thu Feb 04, 2021 3:49 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable
Replies: 7
Views: 4305

Having Feelings for Someone is making me feel Vulnerable

Hi, this is my first post on this website and I’m looking for advice. So I have feelings for a guy in my class (I’m 16 and in year 10). And I’ve been attracted to him for about a year but its only been in the last few weeks that it’s really been getting to me. There is a lot of complicated context t...