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- Wed Jan 18, 2023 8:40 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't understand my sexuality
- Replies: 1
- Views: 391452
I don't understand my sexuality
Hello, for months now (think 8-10) I've been having trouble being attracted to people. People in my life said it was probably circumstance and that I hadn't met the right person yet and I tend to agree. But I'm in university now, I've met countless new people and only two interested me romantically ...
- Sat Oct 01, 2022 1:55 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Some advice on how to deal with my feelings
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2105
Some advice on how to deal with my feelings
Hey, I'm heading off to university soon and I feel like I'm behind on things. It feels like I'll be going into this new environment where everyone is more experienced than me in terms of sex and relationships. Since my last relationship ended about a year ago, I haven't been able to find someone tha...
- Sun Apr 17, 2022 11:05 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Unsure about how love happens
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1255
Re: Unsure about how love happens
Yeah, I understand your point on attraction, but I'm still a little confused. I used to think it was because I still liked my previous partner that I didn't allow myself to see anyone else, but I'm beginning to think it has to do more about the way I decide who I want to be with in a romantic relati...
- Sun Apr 17, 2022 6:52 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Unsure about how love happens
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1255
Unsure about how love happens
Hello, I'm not sure how attraction or love happens for me. So far, I've only ever really liked two girls, dated them, and then we split up. The past month or two, I've felt like I moved on from my previous breakup which happened last August, but I don't quite feel attracted or like anyone else I've ...
- Wed Jan 19, 2022 11:17 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't really get crushes
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2604
Re: I don't really get crushes
Hey, I think the problem is that I want something more than what friends can offer in terms of affection. I've quite a few friends that I hug on a regular basis, most being female, and it's alright. I suppose I did depend on my ex for physical affection a lot too though, so what you're talking about...
- Tue Jan 18, 2022 12:59 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't really get crushes
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2604
Re: I don't really get crushes
I've actually talked to her about it. I told her it confuses me that we talk at night again, or that sometimes we might not. She said that it's okay not to talk every night, and I do agree with her. Though, she remained oddly silent about why she wants to again, which is itself confusing. In a way I...
- Mon Jan 17, 2022 3:06 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't really get crushes
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2604
I don't really get crushes
Hiii Just a little bit of backstory, I started dating a girl last May, and she broke up with me in August. I was really quite sad for about 3 months but I'd like to think I'm mostly over it by now. The reason was that she felt like she couldn't be in a relationship.These things happen, I guess. Sinc...
- Mon Jun 14, 2021 2:29 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: relationship advice, maybe?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 4473
relationship advice, maybe?
Hi, Recently I've gotten into my first relationship (hers too), and it's amazing. Recently, we've started getting a bit touchy and cuddly, and I like it a lot, but I keep getting an erection when we do. I know erections are normal and that it's okay to have them, but I always feel like I have to kee...
- Sun Feb 21, 2021 2:17 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: A weird question about sexuality
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2686
Re: A weird question about sexuality
Yeah! Thanks a lot for that link, basically sums up the whole experience :3
- Sun Feb 21, 2021 5:55 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: A weird question about sexuality
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2686
A weird question about sexuality
Over the past few years I've had both female and male crushes. But, really, I think I've figured out that I only want a romantic relationship with girls. With guys, even though they're cool and all I cant imagine myself being romantically in love with one, like living together etc. Why would I feel ...
- Thu Feb 11, 2021 12:30 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4165
Re: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
Hi, sorry for the late reply.
Yeah I'd like that a bunch, thanks Sam
Yeah I'd like that a bunch, thanks Sam
- Sun Feb 07, 2021 1:43 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4165
Re: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
Heh, about the children thing I might have just been having somewhat of an existential crisis. Sorry :3 But yeah, I totally get where you're coming from, there are other options, and many different (likely better) ways to approach the subject. I don't know what would make me feel better, but I know ...
- Sat Feb 06, 2021 10:52 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4165
Re: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
No not really to be honest. What I do want to talk about is, that in the event I'm gay, how will I have kids. I've always wanted to have kids. I just cant help but feel like I'm killing my children by being gay. (I know you dont technically choose to be gay or not, sucks nonetheless). Covid really i...
- Sat Feb 06, 2021 7:50 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4165
Sexual identity, taboo, and literature
Hi :) I'm a teen who's currently in the process of accepting who he is. Actually, I have no idea, but lets just go with Bi. I've been reading a lot of great coming of age books lately (Simon vs the homosapiens agenda, Aristotle and Dante discover the secrets of the universe, The fault in our stars, ...