I think I have to ditch porn because it makes it hard to be in the moment because it always makes me go straight to orgasming without any pleasure beforehand. Also hypothyroidism comes with being mentally slow so maybe when I get my medication adjusted, it could help my mind become more in the momen...

Hi Sam That sounds like an excellent way to approach the convo. I will make sure to ask that question to my endocrinologist. Thank you! I just wanna mention that I just realized that I am always thinking about orgasming instead of the actual masturbation/sex itself. Like I think my mind made me thin...

Hi Heather, thank you for your response. Of course that’s okay. It makes sense of why I can’t get to my strong orgasms. Like getting distracted and not being in the mood are things I really need to work on or get checked. Feeling pleasure throughout is something that seems like would really help my ...

Hi Sam, thank you for your response. Yes it was a rough time and I still feel this way. I lack motivation to carry on a conversation with my friends and family sometimes. Especially when a friend texts me a long message. I just ghost them when they do that because I feel overwhelmed. Same with schoo...

Hi thank you and thank you for your response. I remember being so unmotivated to the point that I dropped out of high school (I was absent a lot) to do online school instead but I still had no motivation to do online school work either so I stayed in bed most of the time. I would skip meals and slee...

(I’m 19 and a virgin) Before 2018, I used to be satisfied with all of my orgasms like I didn’t even have to be very aroused to get a strong and satisfying orgasm. In February 2018, I suddenly had weak orgasms.. like they’re so short now. My clitoris gets sensitive AS SOON as the orgasm comes which l...