Thanks for the advice! I will try this out and see if I can get a better understanding of how my body works.

Yes, we are using lube and yes he does insert fingers first. I feel no discomfort or pain with 1 or 2 fingers inserted. I have a feeling my ex was smaller/thinner and therefore 2 fingers was enough for me to be ready, but that doesn't seem the case with my current partner. I would say unfamiliar wit...

Hello, I'm 28, cis-female, heterosexual, been sexually active for 4-5 years now and I'm coming across a problem of determining when my body is ready for insertion of a penis into my vagina. With my first partner, he would always insert his fingers first and would tell me when he thought I was "...