Since the idea of really being in the moment and letting go appeals to you, are there things you think the two of you could do to generate that kind of space or experience? Does it feel like there's something in the way of creating an intense experience? That's, unfortunately, where I hit a brick w...

I'm not sure if it will be helpful for you, but if you're feeling a bit stuck and looking for some inspiration to help you zero in on the exact feelings you're craving/missing, this (or similar exercises) could be a starting point! Thanks a lot! It was an interesting read - I think it can definitel...

Thank you for the response! I do think that indeed, trying out something very different could have something to do with this...There is one thing I wanted to ask about though: It might be that because you've been in this relationship for a while now, you're dealing with things just feeling...well, l...

One thing that really got my attention here is that you talked about really being engulfed in the experience that one time: do you have any sense of if that time it was so much about what you were doing -- which it sounds like you have tried to replicate without a similar experience -- OR if it was...

Hello, Scarleteen Team! First of all, thank you for setting up this resource - it has been really helpful to me for a very long time. However, there is something I have been struggling with that I can't find a clear answer to anywhere. I have been in a committed relationship for 3 years, and it's so...