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- Mon Jul 19, 2021 12:23 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
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Re: I don't know what to do
I forgot to tell you guys two things. First, my brother and my sister-in-law told me that they understand that I'm having trouble with our parents, but they're not going to talk to them. And second, I wrote a letter(which was really long) to my parents in the most respectful way that I could telling...
- Mon Jul 19, 2021 10:52 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
I don't have the money to buy a bus ticket or the food to go visit them(bc I don't have a job) and my parents wouldn't let me anyway. My best friend has epilepsy also. I like that she understands what it's like. But like none of my other friends understand, they always get a scared face whenever I h...
- Tue Jul 13, 2021 3:10 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
I cried the whole time I was texting my brother about the situation. And my brother and his wife(my sis-in-law) live in Rochester, MN, so it's kinda impossible for me to just go spend the night with them. Hopefully they can talk to my parents. Also, my sister said she didn't want to get involved eit...
- Tue Jul 13, 2021 11:48 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
My one brother responded and told me he didn't want to get involved. My sister and my sister-in-law haven't responded but my other brother, the one married to my sister-in-law, reached out and asked me what was wrong. And I cried the whole time texting him back. He knows how controlling my parents a...
- Tue Jul 13, 2021 9:42 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
Exactly! It's a catch-22. Whenever I tell them that it's not fair for them to do that, they say I don't care if it's not fair. And I was so pissed when my dad told me that it was a lie. It's like my phone is the proof! I really hope they help me out. But they're really bad at responding. My mom comp...
- Tue Jul 13, 2021 8:52 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
So yesterday I asked my dad if I could have my phone in my room and this is how it went: He asked me why? It's pretty obvious. So I could actually respond to my friends when they respond. They all have jobs during the day and I do school during the day. My dad asked me why I don't just bring my phon...
- Mon Jul 12, 2021 12:31 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
My mom would take it away from and hide it somewhere until she was ready to give it back. And it is inappropriate behavior but she won't change. Ok, so when I first made this account, I didn't know how safe it was, so I lied and said I lived in Minnesota. I actually live in Sioux Falls, South Dakota...
- Mon Jul 12, 2021 11:59 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
Thanks for trying to help you guys. It's just I get so frustrated at the situation sometimes. I don't feel like things are going to change anytime soon though. I worked up the courage to ask my mom if I could have my phone in my room last night. She was in bed on her phone and facing her nightstand ...
- Sun Jul 11, 2021 1:49 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
Ok there was this website, I don't remember what it was called, but basically random strangers clicked on buttons. One was for a listener and one was for a talker. So the website would pair together a listener and a talker. I am open to therapy, but with an actual therapist. One with a PhD. My older...
- Sun Jul 11, 2021 12:54 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
The only free online "therapy" I found was strangers that listen to you while you talk. That's not exactly therapy. Freak out means take away my phone, get mad and disappointed, and not trust me anymore. Basically grounded even though I'm 19. My older sister is a snitch and will tell my mo...
- Sun Jul 11, 2021 11:34 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
My parents would not approve of a therapist for this issue. It would make they look like "bad parents". Many of my friend's parents and some people at my church have told my parents that they should change their parenting tactics. My parents get offended bc they say that the people that ar...
- Sun Jul 11, 2021 9:53 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
Well rn my plan is to keep doing school online and after I get a diploma from my current school, I'm going to get an at-home job and keep working on my graphic design classes until I get my bachelors degree. I don't actually really know what I'm going to do when I finish my schooling. My dream is to...
- Fri Jul 09, 2021 2:47 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
I'm pretty sure my mom thinks of independence as moving out. Rn I don't have the money to move out, my mom doesn't think I'm ready, and I'm trying to earn a diploma so I have a lot of school. My parents wouldn't want me to use public transportation, bc they think it's "dangerous". We're go...
- Fri Jul 09, 2021 10:55 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
It is very stressful. And it's not that they're unwilling(well kinda) to drive me. It's just I have a lot of younger siblings and they're really busy since they homeschool them. They don't want to take time out of the day to drive me places. My older sister often drops her kids off at my house for m...
- Thu Jul 08, 2021 2:43 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
My mom is always telling me that she'd love to see me go out on my own and be responsible for myself. The problem is that I'm a middle child so my older siblings did all the things my parents want me to do. I just learned how to clean a bathroom when I was 16. I didn't have to clean bathrooms, or mo...
- Thu Jul 08, 2021 11:12 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
I can't take a bus bc that still requires me to get to a bus station. And the cost of Uber rides would rise very quickly. Plus I don't think my parents would want me to use public transportation since it's "dangerous". I also can't ride a bike. Well, I can but I can't stop unless I fall ov...
- Wed Jul 07, 2021 3:50 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
So I posted a response before my those last two but it didn't post apparently. So I don't have a job and I can't drive bc I have epilepsy(henceforth the no job). Bc of that I can't meet people since I don't work somewhere. My parents don't want me to have a job bc they'd have to drive me. And I get ...
- Wed Jul 07, 2021 2:19 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
I'm 19 and I still haven't had my first kiss yet. Do you know how crappy that makes me feel? Especially when all my friends have bfs/gfs, are getting married, or getting pregnant. The only way I can reduce my horniness is by masturbating. Which my parents don't know I do (and if they did, they'd fre...
- Wed Jul 07, 2021 2:13 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
My parents would freak out if I started online dating. They hate social media. I just got IG after Christmas and I'm freaking 19 yrs old. And I don't know how I feel about it. I'd rather probably meet them in person.
- Wed Jul 07, 2021 10:45 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
Re: I don't know what to do
I understand being in a relationship means fulfilling the other person's needs. And I'm willing to do that. I just want someone to be with. I want to love someone and be loved. I don't feel like anyone sees me as attractive though. Like they wouldn't be sexually attracted to me. I have a lot of grea...
- Tue Jul 06, 2021 2:34 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don't know what to do
- Replies: 49
- Views: 9135
I don't know what to do
Things to know about me: - I was homeschooled since 4th grade - I have never been in a relationship - I'm a 19 yr old female - I'm straight Ok so I'm super stressed about my love life. I don't have one. I'm horny af and I'm lonely. I want to be loved by someone. I'm taking online college classes so ...
Re: Vagina
Yeah. What's the tube? And I see. Is the g-spot in the tube?
Vagina
Hi, so I put my fingers in my vagina for the first time the other day(like without panties on) and it felt well different. It wasn't bad, just different. Does the vagina have different levels ig? Like I had to make circle motions with my fingers before I could go in deeper. Also I've heard it hurts ...
- Mon Jun 21, 2021 12:31 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Uhhh I don't know what to call this
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2943
Re: Uhhh I don't know what to call this
I do want to be honest with him. But I really don't know how to bring it up bc we've never talked about it before. And I said I'd give him a hand job if he figured me bc I want us both to be feel pleasure like I just don't want to be like "please finger me" you know? Also, if we did this, ...
- Mon Jun 21, 2021 11:01 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Uhhh I don't know what to call this
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2943
Uhhh I don't know what to call this
Hi guys! So, I have this guy friend. Our families are really good friends. Lately I've been thinking about asking him something. We're both open with each other and we don't really have secrets. When we we were in middle school, we used to like each other. I've thinking about asking him if he'd want...