I should add, part of the issue is that my partner wants me to let him know well before we could start sexting, which i think is fair. i dont always do that, if i let him know, its usually right before we would start, so i know this is on me as well. His disappointment looks like telling me he feels...

I have a close friend i'm currently in a comfortable friends-with-benefits relationship with. We've been close for years and we've built a lot of trust with each other and we know each other really well. lately we just sext bc of the pandemic, but sex is really important to the both of us although o...