Well, I wouldn't say they are brought on completely randomly. It's usually when I think about something that I found arousing in the past or something that reminds me of such a thing. I don't know if that counts as intrusive or not.

So I think about sex, a lot. I don't think that there is anything wrong with that, but sometimes they are distracting, and also I simply don't like thinking them. It's probably because of my religious upbringing, but it's also possible that I may be asexual or something, I don't know and it doesn't ...

Thank you! That helps a lot!

So basically, I used to get crushes and stuff, but now I kinda never do. If I do they last no longer than a few minutes. I think I may be aromantic, but I really hope I'm not because the idea of being in a relationship sounds really nice and also I don't know how then to explain my previous crushes....

Yes, that sounds good. Thank you!

Thank you for the articles about coping mechanisms, but I really don't want to learn to cope with these feelings (well, other than dysphoria). I want to stop masturbating fully untill I figure out what I believe in (because of the third reason). After I figure that out, I can start thinking about co...

I know there is nothing wrong with masturbation and that it isn't unhealthy and all that stuff, but I still have three reasons why I wanna stop. The first is that I always feel really bad after doing it and like I did something wrong or "dirty" and I just feel like crap after it. The secon...