Ok, I'll talk to him more, but we only really talked through text, so I might ask my friend what he thinks as well. my friend had already said that he is a good guy, and he's also a childhood friend of my friend, it's just the if-chance, of course, I'm still gonna take your advice though. I have a r...

I just finished reading that article you sent, haha. ok, it is reassuring about the whole crush thing. I think it's clearer to me now: I want to be in an ongoing relationship with this person but just a casual sexual encounter with this other person. I've never had sex before, but recently I've been...

Okay, so one of my friends was telling me that one of his own friends (who goes to a different school, we have only two schools in our town) was asking about me, saying, if I was interested In a relationship. A few hours later I start talking to this person to find out who they were and how they kno...

hi Val, I think I'm scared that the resources will just tell me something like "you're privileged, stop diminishing others experiences, you shouldn't feel like this because you are a man", or that the resources won't help, or that they don't apply to me. I'm terrified of my own masculinity...

Hi, I used to have a unhealthy relationship with porn too, (in my experience it was addictive and used it for 5+ years). I found out that I was addicted to it and desperately wanted to stop, by chance I happened to find this resource: https://easypeasymethod.org/ given what you have said, it doesn't...

Hello again, I have been feeling really bad about my gender identity, masculinity and sexuality again recently. I read this article https://www.scarleteen.com/article/abuse_assault/i_worry_that_because_im_a_man_i_am_going_to_sexually_abuse_someone and it really struck a chord with me, I don't think ...

thank you all so so so much for replying to me and helping me with this ❤️. ok! I will ask to arrange something with the school counselor to see how it goes. I would talk to my closest friend about my experience (she's queer too), but I don't think she would fully understand how I'm feeling, and we ...

I don't think I want to keep hanging out with this friend, we don't really interact much and that friend group seems kind of toxic, we only know each other through one other friend. as with being a queer man, it's not as bad as what other people have to face. I guess in primary school, everyone woul...

thank you so so much for the resources, I read the article and there's definitely a lot of stuff that's really helpful, it may seem kind of silly, but this whole situation seems like one of the more big things that I'll need to work up to, but there are so many other small things that I can work on ...

about the self harm, I just don't think I'm ready to talk about with anyone non-anonymously. I feel really embarrassed about it. I don't know if I'm ready to put myself out there like that. it isn't life-threatening self harm or anything. I forgot to mention this but, I had already deleted almost al...

I don't know how this works but, here we go last year I used to be on tiktok and instagram all the time. and, feminism something important to me, I used to follow many feminism pages and stuff. anyways, after a while, some of these feminist pages would always say something about men being evil, or ...

I don't know how this works but, here we go last year I used to be on tiktok and instagram all the time. and, feminism something important to me, I used to follow many feminism pages and stuff. anyways, after a while, some of these feminist pages would always say something about men being evil, or i...