Hi there, Spectexz! You're right, dry humping does not pose a risk of pregnancy. It seems like your girlfriend is having some slightly irregular periods. This can happen for a number of reasons, like stress, hormonal issues, and being on certain medications. Strenuous exercise is another possible ca...

Hi there, Jo.dps- welcome to the boards. I understand why you're asking this question, because there are some concerning things about this situation: This girl wanted to play an adult game, and wouldn't accept other suggestions. It is one thing to be curious about the things that adults do- it is an...

Hi again! Ah, I see... Could we step back from discussing masturbation for a moment? In general, how do you connect with your body? Are there things you do to feel pleasure that are not related to masturbating? (Could you read this article and tell us what you think? It may provide a starting point ...

Hi there, Podencos- welcome to the boards! (I think there was another post of yours titled 'unsure/confused'. It covered the same things as this post, so I only approved this one.) Oh, how awful of him to treat you like this. If he 'moved on', he should have told you before, not when he was forced t...

Okay then- if I may ask, do you feel the urge to pee at other times, like when you sneeze/cough, laugh, or exercise? I'm wondering if you might be feeling this urge due to some pelvic floor issue. A doctor could tell you for sure and help with this, and there are exercises you can do on your own to ...

Hi there, Jenschmii- I'm responding because I'm on shift, I hope you don't mind. Hmm, the soreness should go away on its own in some time. Keep exploring like this, and try to experiment a little with different kinds of sensations, positions, or fantasies. With time, you should get a better sense of...

Hi there, Wanjee, and welcome to the boards! I'm glad you feel this is a safe place to talk. This is nothing wrong with you, but (pardon me) there is something wrong with this guy. Though he tells you not to feel pressured, time and time again, he has acted in ways that pressure you. He repeatedly p...

Hi Anonym05 Oof, I'm sorry this experience made you feel so awful. I can understand why you'd feel this way, but I want to say that you don't have to be ashamed of this. Sometimes our bodies don't act the way we expect them to, and that is alright. Just to check, are you sure the mysterious liquid w...

Hi there, Solartopia- welcome to the boards! I can see how this would be so frustrating- but don't worry, your body isn't broken. Plenty of people have problems with pleasure and masturbation that usually resolve themselves with some time, patience, and experimentation. To begin, let me try to addre...

Hi there, Berkley2003 While this is something that you could bring up with your therapist, we can still talk about it here. To start, two questions: Are there effects of HRT that you think you will like? (I imagine you might want the vocal changes) What effects of HRT do you think you won't like? It...

Hi there, Wendysdrivethrough I understand why you might be panicking, but don't worry- this is manageable. If you feel comfortable, this would be a good time to see a gynecologist. We can ask questions and try to help you figure out what this is, but a doctor would be able to check and tell you for ...

Hi Emi, So one thing to try would be using a piece of sexual media or imagining something while you masturbate to keep yourself engaged- as Sam said, being distracted or bored can make things less exciting and pleasurable. You could also try to set aside free time to experiment with this- feeling pr...

Hi there, ilovepuppies Some variation like this is normal, don't worry. This is my second period after I had protected sex but I still worry Ah, are you concerned about the possibility of being pregnant? You may know this, but you can be confident that you're not pregnant since you've had a period.

Hi there, Rhiskei So it seems like there are multiple factors causing you to worry about this. I'm sorry that people close to you have said unkind things about your appearance, I know that it can be hard not to internalize such comments. It can take a while to develop a better view of yourself and y...

Hi there, Leviwig0607 I don't think it isn't selfish for you to want to feel good with your boyfriend- just, don't be so harsh with yourself. Of course, it isn't wrong to see if there is something you can address to make fingering yourself more pleasurable. But as Sam said, sometimes our bodies don'...

Hi there, androgynousbird

If I may ask, have you noticed any pain while inserting a single finger? Does this pain feel like a burning or stinging sensation, or a more general ache?

Hi mariaaamariaaan- welcome to the boards! No, you could not have gotten pregnant from that, don't worry. If you'd like to learn more, here are some articles: Who's Afraid of Sperm Cells? (Discusses how long sperm cells can survive outside the body) Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From ...

Hi there, Max3_3 You don't need to worry- it is fairly common for one breast to be bigger than another, and most of the time, it is not a cause for concern. It is true that you can have surgery to adjust this, but it isn't necessary. If I may ask, what about this makes you feel insecure? P.S. Your E...

Hi Snailwithhat You know, I don't think this is unusual, and more importantly, it works for you. Of course, you can always try to explore new ways of masturbating to find other things that you like, but don't focus on not relying on a vibrator. (Also, you can use a vibrator during sex with another p...

Hi there, Snailwithhat- welcome to the boards! I understand why you might feel ashamed, but I want to reassure you that it isn't bad to have a fetish- even one that is unusual or stigmatized. While I don't think there is an effective and guaranteed way to get over a fetish, it is possible to discove...

Hi there, Tatanif- welcome to the boards! Don't worry, you haven't done anything wrong. Sometimes, when we get swept up in the flow of an interaction, we can forget to check in with ourselves about how we're feeling, and whether we really want what's happening. So, while what you did isn't morally b...

Hi PleaseHelpAsap, If you don't mind, would you describe this small seizure? they go numb and tingly when we are on call together, any reason why this happens? Could it be that your sessions with your boyfriend are longer than your usual masturbation sessions? If they are, that could be straining yo...

Hello AttaccaAmoeba44, Honestly, it is understandable that it hurt, even if he was kind. I want to build off of what Amanda suggested for a moment: do you think it's possible that you've been falling for these guys because you're looking at them through romance-tinted glasses? I'm sure they have won...

Hi there, SpottedOwl, You mentioned that you're worried that you won't be taken seriously, or that you'll be dismissed. Since you know that your family's views have changed since talking with your therapist and doctor, do you think bringing this up and asking them for some reassurance upfront would ...

Hi Rachel 1, I can't say for sure what that post meant because I don't have it for reference, but I can make a guess. Maybe it is not that women get more pleasure than anyone else (how would we measure that?), but rather that the clitoris is the only organ on the entire body that is solely for sexua...