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by Latha
Sun Jul 16, 2023 7:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Being Transsexual in an undeveloped country
Replies: 4
Views: 946

Re: Being Transsexual in an undeveloped country

Hi Duckworth!

Nicole should be on shift tomorrow (Monday the 17th)- she should respond to you then!
by Latha
Sun Jul 16, 2023 7:31 am
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: One of the biggest things that gives me anxiety is feeling like an inconvenience to people, am I being irrational?
Replies: 1
Views: 17128

Re: One of the biggest things that gives me anxiety is feeling like an inconvenience to people, am I being irrational?

Hello Pinkheartsss0! Honestly, I fully understand struggling when it feels like someone is angry with you. Don't be upset with yourself for feeling bad or crying. That said, I think this mindset is hurting you. Relying on other people, making mistakes, and needing help are normal parts of being huma...
by Latha
Sun Jul 16, 2023 5:49 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I kind of dread spending time with my family, is this normal or am I being rude?
Replies: 3
Views: 11408

Re: I kind of dread spending time with my family, is this normal or am I being rude?

Hi there, Pinkheartsss0- welcome to the boards! You know, it's okay to have periods where you just need some more space or need to be on your own for a while- that in it of itself isn't rude. You just need to remember not to react to other people unkindly during these times. That said, from what lit...
by Latha
Sun Jul 16, 2023 4:21 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: am I pregnant or not?
Replies: 21
Views: 10210

Re: am I pregnant or not?

Hello again, Abii! As Sam said, if you don't have any symptoms it is very likely that you're not pregnant. The test is meant to give you a definite answer, and it's usually better to test sooner rather than later in case you need abortion care. Are you having trouble buying a test? Yes, the first tr...
by Latha
Sun Jul 16, 2023 2:31 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: I feel in love with my lesbian best friend
Replies: 22
Views: 43984

Re: I feel in love with my lesbian best friend

Hey, it's not a lot, don't worry! I can see you're trying really hard to manage these feelings and that you really care about your friend. Bottling things up sounds stressful and exhausting, so it's great that you feel you can talk about your feelings with her. The thing is, she isn't the only perso...
by Latha
Sun Jul 16, 2023 1:19 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I had two meltdowns today
Replies: 23
Views: 39243

Re: I had two meltdowns today

So those are options you have- that's good! So, to recap the strategies we've been considering- Minimizing the time spent around your parents: Maybe staying at your grandmother's place Going to the park Going to the library (Other ideas could be going to cafés/the mall/the gym as Nicole suggested, o...
by Latha
Sat Jul 15, 2023 5:49 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Bi? Biromantic Lesbian? A new word I don't know?
Replies: 1
Views: 2056

Re: Bi? Biromantic Lesbian? A new word I don't know?

Hi there, Aletheia- welcome to the boards! Your explanation is good, don't worry- just let me know if I've misunderstood anything. Here are my thoughts: I've definitely seen people use both 'bi' and 'biromantic lesbian' to describe the kinds of feelings you've mentioned. Here, I think we have to ack...
by Latha
Sat Jul 15, 2023 4:55 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: I feel in love with my lesbian best friend
Replies: 22
Views: 43984

Re: I feel in love with my lesbian best friend

Hi there, Buckey17! Regarding feeling uncomfortable in social situations, here is how I try to think about it: A lot of people worry about being judged or somehow messing up in social situations, just as you do. Many people know what is like to feel embarrassed or out of place in social situations. ...
by Latha
Sat Jul 15, 2023 4:26 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I had two meltdowns today
Replies: 23
Views: 39243

Re: I had two meltdowns today

Hi Jay27, I'm sorry depression is making things so difficult- I know how hard it can be. I want to assure you that you're not behind. Be patient with yourself, and take things step by step. If all you can do is eat and do basic self-care, that is enough. Nothing is more important than your health. I...
by Latha
Sat Jul 15, 2023 3:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: am I pregnant or not?
Replies: 21
Views: 10210

Re: am I pregnant or not?

Hi abii, I'm glad that makes you feel better, and that's a good plan! It is possible for a pregnancy test to give a false result, but it is unlikely, especially if it is used properly. This guide has instructions on how to buy and use pregnancy tests, if you'd like: Peeing on a Stick: All About Preg...
by Latha
Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:02 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Girlfriend says she'll lose sexual attraction for me if we open our relationship
Replies: 5
Views: 37845

Re: Girlfriend says she'll lose sexual attraction for me if we open our relationship

Hi there, Mixxes If you're comfortable with staying monogamous, that's a good plan. If you do want to discuss open relationships with your girlfriend in the future, I wonder if it would help to look into stories from other people who have opened up their relationships together. It might give her a m...
by Latha
Wed Jul 12, 2023 3:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I got my withdrawal bleed yet I'm worried about pregnancy
Replies: 5
Views: 4276

Re: I got my withdrawal bleed yet I'm worried about pregnancy

Hello there, Seuniemonki- welcome to the boards! Getting a withdrawal bleed is a pretty good indication that you're not pregnant. Too, those symptoms that you mentioned are also side effects of taking the combined pill itself. I'd say taking a pregnancy test is a good idea, especially if the additio...
by Latha
Wed Jul 12, 2023 3:32 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I had two meltdowns today
Replies: 23
Views: 39243

Re: I had two meltdowns today

Hi there, Jay27 That really does sound upsetting and exhausting, no wonder you're stressed! Your therapist is right that you shouldn't listen to the cruel things they say, but it's definitely not easy to tune that sort of thing out. When I think about things you could do to make staying with your pa...
by Latha
Wed Jul 12, 2023 3:07 am
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: have i been abused?
Replies: 24
Views: 67296

Re: have i been abused?

Hi there, SillyMcGoof Hmm, that does seem a bit tricky, though it isn't nothing. Just to throw out some suggestions, do you think your mother would help you spend time outside of the house when your sister is around by dropping you off at a friend's home/an activity/the library, etc.? Or would she s...
by Latha
Wed Jul 12, 2023 2:26 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: having a LOT of trouble with my sex drive/stimulation, help?
Replies: 1
Views: 104734

Re: having a LOT of trouble with my sex drive/stimulation, help?

Hi there, Marcille- welcome to the boards! Don't worry, the post isn't too long. I can't give you a definite set of instructions that will make masturbation more pleasurable, but I can assure you that plenty of other people have been in your situation- some patience and trial and error usually do th...
by Latha
Sun Jul 09, 2023 2:51 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Wondering About My Gender Identity
Replies: 2
Views: 34172

Re: Wondering About My Gender Identity

Hi there, flamboyantGuy- I'm so glad to hear Scarleteen has helped you like it helped me. On behalf of the Scartleteam, thank you for the compliment! First, I want to say that you get to define your gender for yourself- if you think you are genderqueer, you are. You're definitely not alone in feelin...
by Latha
Sun Jul 09, 2023 2:01 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: I’m questioning my gender for the first time in my life and I’m so scared, confused, and anxious, I really need advice
Replies: 10
Views: 527836

Re: I’m questioning my gender for the first time in my life and I’m so scared, confused, and anxious, I really need advi

Hello there, Lunasun It doesn't seem strange to me that you're scared to ask your mother about seeing a therapist- it is a loaded topic after all. Try to remind yourself that she won't judge you. Would you like to brainstorm ways to bring this up with her? About gender being a big deal to you- diffe...
by Latha
Sun Jul 09, 2023 1:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: male sex toys..
Replies: 4
Views: 8760

Re: male sex toys..

Hi there, staplesj!

Ah, you're right about there being stigma, especially for straight men. Just so we're on the same page, would you clarify what you mean by 'multi-orgasmic' experience? Do you mean having multiple orgasms in succession, or something else?
by Latha
Fri Jul 07, 2023 10:27 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Kinks
Replies: 4
Views: 6427

Re: Kinks

Hi there, CatMatRat!

I think with any kink, it is important to make sure both participants are safe and can give informed consent. As you may know, even BDSM can be unsafe if it isn't practiced properly. Does that make sense?
by Latha
Fri Jul 07, 2023 2:34 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Resources for practicing safe sadomasochism?
Replies: 1
Views: 7384

Re: Resources for practicing safe sadomasochism?

Hi there, Brungerbulb! Yikes indeed, but that's what we're here for- if you feel comfortable, you could pass this article along to your brother. I'm glad you've found this website to be helpful! : D You're right, it can be a bit difficult to find this kind of information if you don't know where to l...
by Latha
Sun Jul 02, 2023 3:32 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Lubricant stuff
Replies: 7
Views: 10178

Re: Lubricant stuff

Hello! Not necessarily- just wash the lube off if you experience any burning, itching, or redness- in all likelihood, they'll go away on their own in some time. You might need to see a doctor if there's no sign of the irritation getting better after a day or so, or if it's painful. Actually, before ...
by Latha
Sun Jul 02, 2023 2:43 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: feeling sexually frustrated on my period [vent][tmi]
Replies: 11
Views: 141350

Re: feeling sexually frustrated on my period [vent][tmi]

Honestly, it seems like you're having an awful time, and it makes sense that you're so exhausted by it all. You're right, there isn't a simple solution for your situation- if there was, I imagine you'd have found it already. It sounds like your periods are generally difficult, given that they feel h...
by Latha
Sat Jul 01, 2023 11:45 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Feeling proud of myself
Replies: 1
Views: 4658

Re: Feeling proud of myself

Congratulations, that's great!
by Latha
Sat Jul 01, 2023 3:48 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Lesbian or Bi???
Replies: 2
Views: 10695

Re: Lesbian or Bi???

Hi there, Sofia! Honestly, that does sound like it would be annoying and confusing- what you're saying makes sense. I can't tell you for sure what your sexuality is, because that's something you get to define for yourself, but I can give you my thoughts- I hope they may offer you some comfort. You'r...
by Latha
Sat Jul 01, 2023 2:11 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Weird lump around anal opening?
Replies: 3
Views: 3815

Re: Weird lump around anal opening?

Hey, that's alright- we answer questions about health as well. It's good that you can see a doctor about this, they should be able to tell you what the lump is with certainty.