hey sofi, thanks for the response. i've talked to a friend and they said i should take to him about it if i feel like i'm not getting closure or there's some stuff unresolved for me. i feel like i want to tell him how i feel - but it feels weird though, as we just met once. on the one hand i'm like ...

hey loganw, thanks for your response! i've dated a polyamorous person last year briefly and I did not mind them having another partner, now i'm activly choosing to dating monogamous and nonmonogamous people alike and just seeing with who i click and what feels right. i've read quite a ton about poly...

hey, three weeks ago i had a date with a polyam guy. i've decided that i don't want to see him again but i'm still thinking about the date afterall bc it confronted me with some stuff i haven't thought about and still can't answer. the date was pretty nice! we met in a cafe and talked for a long tim...

I did, that's why I talked to a therapist very recently. but not a sex therapist, no. i did not consider my feelings "bad enough", (bc they're not bad, in general i'm feeling pretty great) but honestly at the moment i don't care anymore, i don't want to wait anymore. maybe i'll should give...

hey there, it's me again. half a year later and i'm still struggling with the same thing. on the one hand, i'm pretty chill about experiencing no arousal anymore, on the other it's bothering me even more at the moment. I did a lot of self discovery in the past months, mainly bc I made a new good fri...

i'm not really putting pressure on myself. i'm chill and forgiving with myself and i gave myself so much space in the last two years and still, it did not do anything good. i'm not on medication and i've been pretty horny during other stressfull times in my life. i'm feeling pretty good since half a...

i haven't been horny for two years and it's really bothering me. i know what it feels like and i've been a horny person before, i'm also allosexual, but somehow my libido got lost. i miss enjoying masturbation so much, i tried to chill and give myself space, tried to be horny and partially gave up o...

dear heather, i don't really want to talk about the assault. i'm mainly fine around the topic, i think what Friend said was just something that reminded me of several situations where someone either turned a platonic situation into something sexual without asking and reinterpreting me just being nic...

thank you so much for the reassurance. i feel like taking a break from the friendship would be good, even if i don't feel great about it at all. but i literally don't know what else to do right now. i think i'm just taking a break for a couple of weeks or months and focus on work and establishing of...

hey, thanks for replying. i know i can have my own boundaries around this topic. i think i don't want to end this friendship but given that it's still a young one and i'm in a weird place right now i might? i like him as a friend and i think if we were on purely platonic terms without knowing he has...

hey, me again. we had a talk yesterday and overall it's been good. he aknowledged all by himself that he did put too much on me and gave me the space to get some other stuff out, as his vaguesness in trying to tell me that he's romantically interested triggered fear in me. we talked about and it's b...

yeah, you are right. i'm not going to ask. thank you so much for talking me through this! i feel ready to talk to him now

yeah, i think i'm going with those two. :) i'd just add that talking about certain emotional topics is a no go right now - but with the option that he can talk to me if it's urgent or he's concerned about his own safety. do you think it's weird to ask what he's specifically feeling for me? bc i'm a ...

hi heather. :) to me he is a cool friend, we have the same political opinions and a very similar kind of humor, the same interests in books, music, media, we both like crafting and making art and can just talk for hours. we mostly did talk about non-sad stuff so far and i always enjoyed spending tim...

I have a friend who i have been hanging out virtually quite reguarly over the course of this year. we're online friends, he's pretty great and we have lots of fun talking. however, he's also very lonely, sad and depressed due to covid circumstances and general troubles. while he doesn't take it out ...