Hi! This is definitely not a silly question, and I’m glad you asked! If you and your partner have never had sex with anyone other than each other, it is very unlikely that you would have an STI. STIs are not created, only passed from one person to another. With that being said, if you have any doubt...

Hi there! I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with this, it sounds frustrating. You’re definitely not being a crybaby about this. The first thing I’ll say is that if penetration just isn’t feeling good for you, that’s okay! Many people who use vibrators don’t penetrate themselves at all. I would sug...

Hi! First of all, I want to affirm that whatever you feel is valid and normal, even if it sometimes changes. There is also no such thing as being “too feminine” to be a non-binary person, plenty of non-binary people express them in a feminine way. If you feel comfortable identifying as non-binary, t...

What are some things that you do to listen to your body? It's easy to get caught up in the chaos of every day life, and sometimes we might forget to pay attention to what our bodies need. For me, I sometimes find that when I'm feeling extremely stressed or anxious, it's because I haven't been gettin...

Hey there! It's great that you discovered what works for you when masturbating! Spacing out is totally normal, but I understand that it can be frustrating. When it comes to masturbating, being relaxed and comfortable is important. When you use your imagination, do you think about the same things eac...

What are some qualities that you value most in relationships- whether romantic or platonic? For me, I really value honesty and communication in both romantic and platonic relationships. Taking stock of what matters the most to me helps me to consider which relationships in my life are thriving and w...

Hi, Firstly, it's great that you would like to keep using condoms. You're right, having a second form of protection IS safer, especially since you said you definitely don't want to get pregnant. No method of birth control is 100% effective even with perfect use, but using both birth control pills an...