(i figure mental health stuff probably deserves to go here too haha) ive noticed recently that after masturbating, I have this really bad emotional drop. I was venting about this to someone, and they told me that it's probably because I'm not doing aftercare. it feels obvious in hindsight. I mean, y...

so i've been reading erotic fiction (mostly fanfiction, which feels embarrassing to say haha) for most of my sexual media, and a question i have is if they're depicting the application of lube during anal sex properly. most fiction portrays first anal fingering with a good amount of lube to both &qu...

Hi there, electricswitch. I don't think your fantasies as you're describing them here are necessarily a cause for concern. It isn't unusual for people to enjoy sexual fantasies about things they wouldn't like to experience in real life (or that they'd only like to experience in specific circumstanc...

ive always had an interest in stuff like domination and sadism, and recently my fantasies about these things have been a bit more extreme than id like them to be. it used to be normal stuff you'd find in any bdsm scene (spanking, whips stuff like that) but recently its evolved to stuff like cutting ...

hey sam!

yeah, most of my emotions are kind of dulled. i forgot the word for it but it has been a pattern for me. for some reason i keep expecting myself to find some kind of breakthrough in the pattern, which is probably really unhealthy for me.

quite ominous title, sorry. last night a few close friends of mine and i decided to have some fun sexting. it was nice and we all had fun, and i was even told i was very good at dirty talking which was an ego boost haha. but after it was over i really didn't feel anything special about it. it just t...