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by bluebee
Sat Aug 21, 2021 2:17 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation
Replies: 8
Views: 14165

Re: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation

I guess I feel the same after those physical activities as I did before them. If there's any difference, I can't tell. If anything they're sometimes just ways for me to get rid of pent up energy, so afterwards I would just feel normal. I suppose I'll try some more intense sources of pleasure. I alre...
by bluebee
Fri Aug 20, 2021 5:20 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation
Replies: 8
Views: 14165

Re: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation

I'd say the vast majority of the time it's a sense of physical arousal, I don't really have the patience to even attempt masturbating anymore if I'm not aroused, it would seem like a was a waste of time since it never goes anywhere. It would seem a bit pointless. I don't really know how much I would...
by bluebee
Fri Aug 20, 2021 2:11 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation
Replies: 8
Views: 14165

Re: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation

I find it uncomfortable having fantasies in which I'm involved with another person, or imagining any real people at all. I tend to prefer imagining fictional characters, specifically where I imagine myself in the place of one of the characters. I usually feel like I get the closest to actually enjoy...
by bluebee
Thu Aug 19, 2021 3:12 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation
Replies: 8
Views: 14165

Re: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation

I find it pretty difficult to completely eliminate expectations and stressors, as after years of trying to find something that works for me with no luck makes it pretty hard to approach masturbation without at least some inherent frustration, but I do try to go into things as optimistic as I can. I'...
by bluebee
Tue Aug 17, 2021 6:10 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation
Replies: 8
Views: 14165

Sexually frustrated but can't enjoy masturbation

Hi I'm a 17 year old transmasc nonbinary person, and for as long as I've been masturbating, I've never been able to enjoy it. I'm asexual, so my enjoyment of sexual acts is a bit different than most people's, but I do genuinely want to enjoy them. I don't feel the need to masturbate very often, but ...