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by Show Me Love
Fri Feb 27, 2015 8:15 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: The Nuh-uhs
Replies: 6
Views: 4463

Re: The Nuh-uhs

Yeah. It's not only that "my love for you is so great that it makes me do crazy things", but the idea behind the phrase is "you're so [ugly/stupid/immature/unworthy/whatever] that no one will ever love you as much as I do; I'm your only chance, and as good as you can get". It dis...
by Show Me Love
Sun Feb 22, 2015 12:05 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: The Nuh-uhs
Replies: 6
Views: 4463

Re: The Nuh-uhs

I feel what I'm going to say is really obvious, but there was a time when I didn't realise the obvious danger behind these words:

"No one will ever love you like I do".

It gives me chills just to write it down >_<
by Show Me Love
Sun Feb 22, 2015 12:00 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: How do you comfort yourself?
Replies: 16
Views: 8445

Re: How do you comfort yourself?

Kittens, thank you very much for the answer. I think what I have might be not flashbacks, but just intrusive thoughts and memories. I'll talk to my therapist to learn more on this. Thanks for the tips! =D
by Show Me Love
Sat Feb 21, 2015 4:02 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: How do you comfort yourself?
Replies: 16
Views: 8445

Re: How do you comfort yourself?

Hello!! I'm new here, this is my first comment =)

Music comforts me a lot!! And I also have 3 stuffed animals, who are my kids (the only kids I ever plan on having, haha).

I'm interested in ways to cope with flashbacks, too!