Hi Micheala, I'm sorry for taking a week to respond, it's been a stressful little while. To keep this short, because you wrote a lot (thank you by the way, I can tell you put a lot of effort into that), I'm going to respond to each idea one by one, as few sentences each (retroactive edit: I never ma...

Hi Carly, It's coming up to the beginning of winter here in Canada, which means snow... lots of snow. I do like walking, but not only am I in a not great part of town for that (with rude as heck neighbors), but it's already blanketed out there, so that's a no go for now. During next spring I'll try ...

Hi Elise,

I would absolutely be up for brainstorming activites for me to do that are not dependant on supplies, and I would love your help on that, that's very kind of you!

Warmly, Anne.

Hi Mo, Sorry for taking so long to respond, I've had a busy week. The problem is somewhat habit (I don't really have anything nice I can do for myself when I'm feeling down because all of my hobbies require physical things that you can run out of, and that happens all the time, so masturbation is ki...

Hi Mo, Thank you for your comment, it's nice to know that I'm not entirely alone on this problem (the focusing too much on orgasm, not the requiring penetration to do so). I hear you on the taking a break from masturbation advice, although I feel it should be noted that that (in both ways mentioned)...

Hi Nicole, In regards to your advise on bubble baths and what was going on in my life at the time... I don't think that bath thing is practical (I'll get back to the latter part in a second). I do actually very frequently try to masturbate in bubble baths, they make me so comfortable that it just na...

Hi Sofi, In regards to the "would it be an option to try a few more [lubes]?", the short answer is no. I have tried small bottles of lube from every brand available in my local sex toy shop (which is around 5 total brands, by the way) and it's the only sex toy store around for over an hour...

Hi Sam, In regards to the "the way you are masturbating currently" question, if you're referring to what I spoke about in my initial post as the only way I can reach orgasm, then... it's complicated. My issue with that method isn't one of pleasure when it works out (because when it does, i...

Hi my name is Anne and I am a trans woman (pre-op, but with a surgery date next year, so this may not be an issue forever). I have been having issues for a very long time regarding getting to orgasm, because in my experience I've only ever managed to get there in one way, and it's a way I really don...

Hi Emily. I'm going through a lot right now, yeah... Not that you were assuming anything (more to clarify a vague statement on my part), my therapists and I have broken up because they didn't know how to help me, given how specialized my problems are - my last therapist and I even became pretty clos...

Hi Sam. Getting a therapist has been a priority for me recently, but as I want to pick the right one (as my previous therapists haven't worked out), I'm taking the process slow. I have already tried the exercising trick, but it isn't very practical for me. The feeling is very stubborn, and I have a ...

Hi Sofi. Before HRT my libido was already WAY higher then I was comfortable with, but after I started HRT my libido has increased to a point of being completely and utterly insufferable. Yes, it is mentally frustrating, that is why I want it to stop. I am not in my own head when it comes to masturba...

I am a 16 year old pre-op trans woman (1 year on HRT) with a hyperactive libido, and I am actually going insane. Ever since my first puberty began masturbation has been a struggle for me. It's an emotional battle to even start the traditional way without tensing myself up to it before hand, and even...