Oh okay thanks. I guess the person who wrote the article wasn't aware of respecting another person's boundaries or preferances. I'm just worried cuz i don't want to come across as selfish or anthing, if and when i do find someone i'd like to have sex with.

I'm absolutely no fan of "regular" sex (all that penis vagina stuff can get a girl pregnant- and yes, even with pills, even with condoms, and condoms ain't fun so i've heard). I am however a big fan of vaginal massage, and just massage in that area in general. As a single girl, i masturbat...