I can start looking into self help methods, and I know of a few resources for trans people in my area, so I can look for those as well.
I'll try to reframe it as a positive thing, I have a history of judging myself on the simplest of things, so that is something I can work on unlearning.
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- Fri Feb 24, 2023 2:55 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
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- Thu Feb 23, 2023 11:21 pm
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- Topic: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
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Re: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
Finding a therapist who specialized in my specific disorder who didn't charge out of pocket was really hard, but I guess I can try looking for someone again, maybe instead who focuses just on trauma recovery. But with therapy, I have to also think about finding a therapist who understand autistic pa...
- Thu Feb 23, 2023 12:16 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
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Re: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
Yes, that makes sense. I probably feel that way because I'm embarrassed, not just about the way I masturbate but the fact that I don't do it by fingering myself or "touching myself," which I've always thought of as the "normal" way for people who have vaginas to masturbate. You'r...
- Wed Feb 22, 2023 11:20 pm
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- Topic: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
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Re: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
I realize I probably put too many topics all in one post but I was reaching out because I had a lot of things on my mind I guess. I guess the way I phrased it was a bit weird, but I think what I meant by "it doesn't feel special" was more like, I feel like if I actually had sex with a pers...
- Wed Feb 22, 2023 12:21 am
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- Topic: Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
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Masturbating Doesn't feel Good + Tickling Kink?
I'm 18, I'm a trans man, and ever since starting Tesosterone I've been pretty horny all the time (which is a normal side effect). I'm a virgin, the one partner I've had I've never even kissed. In fact the first time we ever held hands was the day that he broke up with me. My best friend says that sh...
- Fri Oct 29, 2021 11:45 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Finding ways to express myself sexually
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Re: Finding ways to express myself sexually
Thank you for the sources! Mostly what makes me nervous is getting made fun of or having my friends think I'm weird for being sexual, but someday in the future yeah I would like to share my songs, obviously when I'm an adult though. I'm currently working on an album that's more related to mental hea...
- Thu Oct 28, 2021 8:43 am
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- Topic: Finding ways to express myself sexually
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Finding ways to express myself sexually
So let me put it this way. I'm a 16 almost 17 y/o trans nonbinary teenager, not comfortable sharing my assigned gender at birth. I am also not comfortable masturbating or having sex with my sex specific genitals until I have gotten bottom surgery. I have not dated anyone yet but if I do I plan on te...