That detail is all really helpful! You mention some anxiety around the idea that you'll mess this up or she'll "come to her senses" and end things. Where do you think that anxiety is coming from? How is your self-confidence when it comes to other things? I think these two articles might b...

Hi tontontonton, It sounds like there are a few things making this whole situation even trickier. One is that you two have never met face to face. Now, lots of relationships start and flourish online, but it can sometimes to be tricky to gauge our attraction, or even just our connection, to another...

Hello, I'm 18 and a lesbian and this summer I got together with one of my best friends. We were both mutually crushing on each other, flirting a little, and generally being sweet. I couldn't stand the wait any longer and initiated a talk about relationships, and then she accepted and then we were gi...