Exactly. I think you said it right there. "When we're in an obsession." But, you're right that's not how we behave. I feel like I'm the much "bigger" person here, I don't think I have done anything wrong, nothing wrong at all. We were dating right after the summer and everything ...

Yes, you are right.

It's just plain wrong. It's SO wrong. Thank you both for really opening my mind that it is not my fault. That I shouldn't blame myself for sleeping with someone else.
I will definitely cut all talks with him for awhile, and focus on myself.

Hi!! Thanks for replying! Yes, well when I did meet up with him, he did say "I gave you your space, please give me mine, you came back to me, we need space." I haven't really discussed the space with him and I should have, since my emotions are all over the place. Really for him, I know th...

Hello Folks, I've been in a relationship with the love of my life for around a year. We're from the same country and study in North Carolina together. Every relationship has its ups and downs, and so I'm left confused. I feel like I've been listening to way too many opinions and I'm afraid to visit ...