I feel really bad because i'm feeling a bit frustrated in general and out of control when it comes to sex. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we have sex very often, almost every time we see each other. it's always great and there's no real problem with our sex life at all....

hiya, so yeah I've been thinking about it for the last month+ and I can see where the tension was being held in my head. I can't finish in any other position tho, and I find it hard to stop when I start, so even though I keep telling myself I need to stop this I haven't. so it defo feels compulsive ...

this is so embarrassing so I can't really reach out to anyone about this. but I'm seeing doctors all the time now trying to get a fix for my constant fatigue and migraines. I have anemia, but it's gotten so bad recently and we don't know why (and plus the doctor told me that anemia shouldn't be caus...

hey, just here to give a positive update. i've given myself some time to think through things and remember what we spoke about in those counselling sessions for the similar issue. i feel like a i've got a really fresh perspective on it all now, and i'm setting boundaries between my fantasies and wha...

oh yeah i had counselling for a few months that i ended in February actually. i was very repressed because of my hyper-religious family and had a lot of shame because of my sexuality and childhood things that i've only recently been processing. but we mainly talked about masturbation because i was o...

hi, i was supposed to reply earlier, but thank you so much for your response. it was really reassuring, and i'm glad i had it for what almost happened tonight. i basically got really desperate and made an impulse decision to get tinder and find a guy to hook up with. and i did, i got to the point wh...

Hi, thanks for your reply! I think that you're right it wouldn't be the kind of experience I'm looking for. I think I'm just struggling to feel any form of validation right now, but I need to find away to be able to just depend on myself. easier said than done lol. longing for this kind of male vali...

hello, i posted before on this site to get some guidance around my sexual identity, and i'm pretty confident and happy in saying i'm a lesbian now. however, i think i'm soon going to make a very non-lesbian and bad decision. i'm at uni and everyone around me is having a great time having sex and exp...

hello again, i didn't reply for a while because i'm been doing some research and trying things out, i'm back with more questions lol. i'd love to find any kind of wlw media, films and written. i've spent years reading erotica but its only ever been mlm - which is where my original question stemmed f...

hi, is there media that represents a more true reflection of lesbian sex? i would like to explore those kind of fantasies but i dont know where to start... as for the relgious guilt, yeah i have really struggled with it for a long time now - i don't want to trauma dump too much lol but my family is ...

hi Urna, thank you so much for your reply! it's true that even my fantasies could suffer from comphet, and i really liked what you said about if a label makes me happy, it's mine, that's reassuring. as for lesbian sex being less fulfilling, my fantasies and preffered methods of maturation have alway...

i recently came to the conclusion that i am a lesbian. i thought i was bi for years, but from the experience i've had with both guys and girls, i know that getting close to girls makes me really happy and excited, but being intimate with guys makes me super anxious, uncomfortable and grossed out. i ...