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- Tue Jun 25, 2024 12:42 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
- Replies: 17
- Views: 462
Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Hi Brian, as for self-care strategies I would suggest exploring as many as you can so you have a longer list of those that can help when you need it and some aren’t working/possible to do at a given moment. But in the end, when it comes to persistent mental health issues, sometimes these activities ...
- Tue Jun 25, 2024 11:14 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Does this say anything about my sexual orientation?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 180
Re: Does this say anything about my sexual orientation?
Hi Rose99, I hope it’s okay that I’m stepping in here. I hear you trying to base the decision about what words to use to describe your sexual orientation on a few specific situations like being attracted to some specific body parts or liking one of the ways to have sex. As I see it, sexual orientati...
- Tue Jun 25, 2024 10:01 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I feel like my boyfriend is lying when he says good things about me
- Replies: 3
- Views: 124
Re: I feel like my boyfriend is lying when he says good things about me
Hi PrettyPrincess, I understand not wanting to bring up a difficult topic at a moment when you are having a good day together but I also think that for a relationship to be good in the long term people in it should understand that there won’t always be only perfect days when everyone is happy all th...
- Wed Jun 19, 2024 4:42 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Penetration discomfort
- Replies: 3
- Views: 182
Re: Penetration discomfort
Hi there VivaciousPoet, I hear you on wanting to try out if the things you like in fantasy are pleasurable in reality as well. However, sometimes, this is not the case for all people and for all fantasies. Often the things we like in our imaginations aren’t things we want to do or enjoy doing in rea...
Re: Sex
That’s good to hear!
So, referring to the previous posts, it seems like your next steps should be trying using extra lube and talking with your partner about the way how she wants to be finger. How does that sounds?
So, referring to the previous posts, it seems like your next steps should be trying using extra lube and talking with your partner about the way how she wants to be finger. How does that sounds?
Re: Blood
Hi there, Jay
That sounds like a good idea! Let us know if you need any assistance around talking about and making those plans. For a start, you can find a lot of great resources about pregnancy and contraception here: https://www.scarleteen.com/about/pregna ... -resources
That sounds like a good idea! Let us know if you need any assistance around talking about and making those plans. For a start, you can find a lot of great resources about pregnancy and contraception here: https://www.scarleteen.com/about/pregna ... -resources
- Thu Jun 13, 2024 1:55 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
- Replies: 17
- Views: 462
Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Hi there, Brian I think it’s great that you are actively searching for ways to make sex a nice experience for both of you again. (Given your other posts I’m assuming you mean pregnancy-related anxieties but if you meant something else please let us know and we can talk about that too). First of all,...
- Thu May 30, 2024 12:06 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: I think I have vaginismus. Can I start dilating before I see an OBGYN?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 728
Re: I think I have vaginismus. Can I start dilating before I see an OBGYN?
I’m glad what Kier said was helpful! And I’m sorry you had a painful and uncomfortable experiences with medical exams, that can really make the future ones seem scary. On top of all the excellent advice Kier gave you you can try reading through this article to see if you find something else helpful:...
- Thu May 30, 2024 10:55 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: My parents don't want me to have sex
- Replies: 22
- Views: 903
Re: My parents don't want me to have sex
Hi Renee, I’m really sorry to hear that you feel like your parents don’t really know you and aren’t even trying to get to know and understand you better. While there probably isn’t one fast simple way to somehow create an amazing relationship with them, because that would require their willingness t...
- Mon May 27, 2024 1:20 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: will pregnancy tests work the same for me even tho im on T
- Replies: 3
- Views: 413
Re: will pregnancy tests work the same for me even tho im on T
Hi there and welcome to the boards! You don’t have to worry, pregnancy tests are just as effective for people on testosterone and/or progesterone. That’s because they are testing for the presence of a special hormone (it is called human chorionic gonadotropin or hCG if you are interested in the medi...
- Tue May 21, 2024 12:24 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Masturbation and no pleasure in clit
- Replies: 9
- Views: 915
Re: Masturbation and no pleasure in clit
I’m glad Kier’s response was helpful! Anhedonia (= having trouble experiencing pleasure) is a common symptom of depression but the ways mood disorders can affect pleasure are so varied we don’t have a resource specifically about that, but I think you might find this one useful anyway: I Feel Good: P...
- Tue May 14, 2024 9:44 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 785
Re: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
Fingers crossed you find something you will like there!
- Mon May 13, 2024 11:55 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1254
Re: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
Hi trixieandtoast, I hope it’s okay that I’m stepping in here. I’m so sorry this didn’t go as planned! I understand not wanting to bother him when he might have a lot of work but I think there wouldn’t be anything wrong with sending him the voice note if you want to. After all, he said you can and i...
- Mon May 13, 2024 10:39 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 785
Re: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
Hi there Jay27, I’ll let the rest of the team know about this so they can pitch in with their own ideas, but in the meantime here are a few of mine. As for online spaces, if you are looking for a content mostly by and for queer women, this online magazine might be a great place to start (and you wil...
- Wed May 01, 2024 11:30 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: Just discovered I’m asexual at 25
- Replies: 4
- Views: 2647
Re: Just discovered I’m asexual at 25
Hi spottedowl, it’s so great to hear you are feeling better about your sexuality and are learning how to approach it on your own terms despite the possible pressure from other people, that’s so amazing and important for you to know <3 As for some resources I think you can find a few great ones throu...
- Wed May 01, 2024 11:02 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Clarification on Potential Risks and Types of Contact
- Replies: 11
- Views: 4727
Re: Clarification on Potential Risks and Types of Contact
I’m glad you found the article helpful! You are right, even if you take out the temperature as a factor, there are still other reasons that we talked about in the previous posts why the situation doesn’t pose a pregnancy risk. It sounds like this is causing you quite a lot of stress, if you would li...
- Wed May 01, 2024 10:56 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: school's hard
- Replies: 1
- Views: 946
Re: school's hard
Hi there, that sounds like a big choice to make and I can definitely see why it can seem so daunting! Something that has really helped me when facing such choices was realizing that they are often less final than they might seem (in this case for reasons like that some schools allow students to chan...
- Wed May 01, 2024 10:28 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Just broken up, help!
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1046
Re: Just broken up, help!
Hi there Liore and welcome to the boards! I’m so sorry to hear that, breakups can be so hard and things like it being your first one or how unexpected it was for you can make it even harder. There is a lot we can talk about and I think this article covers most of it (including some practical tips ho...
- Fri Apr 26, 2024 1:57 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: why do I only feel pleasure when I feel the need to pee?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 4347
Re: why do I only feel pleasure when I feel the need to pee?
Hi there and welcome to the boards! Increase in pleasure with a full bladder it actually something quite a lot of people experience and it makes a lot of sense that they do because when the bladder fills it expands and presses on the tissues around it which is also where the sensitive internal parts...
- Fri Apr 26, 2024 1:03 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Relationship
- Replies: 67
- Views: 29724
Re: Relationship
Hi Skybushhh, I think it’s really important to keep in mind the the observation that this is coming from your own worries and potentially anxiety rather than from what other people are actually thinking. Because if we are doing something wrong that affects other people they usually let us know about...
- Mon Apr 22, 2024 1:23 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: About sexual noises...
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4301
Re: About sexual noises...
Hi MizdaCFS! I would like to approach this from a bit different angle by asking you first: what would you want that information about your partner for? If the answer is to make sure they don’t feel obliged to put on some show for you than it’s great that you want to make your partner feel comfortabl...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 12:23 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 4638
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
You are welcome! This is again something where there isn’t one specific right thing to say, and I think your idea is great. It lets them know it will be a sensitive conversation so they can prepare for that and saying it might feel weird out loud to the other person often help us deal with the awkwa...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 11:52 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 4638
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
I think your example what to say from your previous posts is a good one! If you are not sure if they have the time/capacity to talk with you at the moment you can start by asking them about that and then you can just tell them something along the lines "I would like to have this toy (you can in...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 10:59 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 4638
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
I totally get these worries! Things to consider could be if they have reacted badly in other situations and if yes, then what "badly" meant in those situation and lastly, if it were to go as badly as in one of these situations if that risk is a one you would be willing to take. How does th...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 10:04 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 4638
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
Hi there SillyMcGoof_ , it’s nice to see you again! I agree that it might feel awkward to talk about this, after all even without the added taboo that’s placed of anything related to sex or sexuality by the society this is still your first time having this conversation, and it might be your parents’...