Hello! I know it might have seemed like he did from my post,nbut I'm quite sure he didn't mean me any harm, he is sometimes impulsive or unpredictable but I believe he's a good guy. And rather than wanting me specifically to be drunk he seemed to be anxious about me not following some 'unspoken rule...

Thank you for the offer, but I don't want to take up even more space than I already do here. But if anyone is interested in the political situation here, I'm happy to talk about it more ( it's actually quite  scary and stressful - no surprise when a person with very fitting nickname "our countr...

Thank you so much for your concern, I really appreciate is! Even though I have very little time for myself, I've been doing quite good lately. My health problems have been also less annoying so I have a lot of free energy to dedicate to helping people around me (like helping classmates with school, ...

Hi, I hope it's not a problem that this thread has been made some time ago and I'm not asking exactly for what you offered, if this or anything else is a problem, I absolutely understand. Firstly, I have a few questions mostly out of curiosity. I've recently seen two people when they were dying i (i...

Hi and thank you for your insight and comforting words! And all the best in your studies for a counselor, I'm sure you'll be a great one! In the end I didn't write her and I won't, I got the 'closure' I needed for myself when I, thanks to you, realised I had the right to be upset and write her about...

Hi and thank you for the reassurance and sharing your point of view, it really made me feel better <3 I also realized that I wasn't that much angry that she told those specific things to my mum  but rather that she violated some 'principle'. And while that was probably in no way okay, it doesn't mea...

In the end I didn't get to write her anything at all, my mum found out I was about to contact her and threatened and begged me in tears not to do that. She's probably right, this family has enough problems at the moment for me to selfishly potentionally create new ones. And it's not very likely the ...

Hi and thank you for the reassurance! In case someone was interested how it went, I texted him that and he answered in quite kind and understanding way and said he would like to keep spending time together. I'm kind of proud of myself for doing that, even though it took me one hour to make myself se...

Hi and thanks, that makes a lot of sense You're right, trying to forsee all possible reactions is exactly what I'm unintentionally doing. From what I know it might be anywhere between "whatever, I realized I don't care about you anyway" and a painful heartbreak, because what he shared abou...

Hi, so nice to hear from you! And thank you for your thoughts, they are really comforting. I guess just the fact that as soon as I said goodbye to him I started thinking about how to tell him we can't be anything else than friend, means this conversation is bound to happen. But I think it'd be kind ...

Well, I wanted to give you all a little break from me but something that I want your opinion on has happend and I also want to just share it with someone. So, for the first time ever a boy had asked me out and said he really likes me. (And I haven't even figured out what that means for me, it has be...

Thank you so much, feeling validated is one of the best feelings I know, thank you for that <3

Thank you for your answers and input! These are all so interesting and very important things for me to learn. I'm sorry your healtcare system isn't good, it must be really hard and frustrating. I'm not sure if it would be even possible to find a provider with more "progressive" approach he...

Again, thank you both so much! (From years at school I know very well that I can get quite annoying with asking so many questions so I really appreciate that you take the time to answer in your limited time. And thanks for the link to that article, I've somehow missed it before and I found it quite ...

Thank you and I'm glad it was helpful! It was nice for me to write down those thoughts too so I'll drop here a few more in case you would like to read them as well. Firstly, I don't  think basing your whole judgement of your personality on just one experience with one person is serving you. Even if ...

Thank you both for those complex but easy-to-understand answers! A have came up with a few other questions while reading them. I know there's a lot of them and I'm asking just out of (too much) curiosity so feel free to pick just some or none :) You mentioned that some hormon levels can be affected ...

Thank you for the long and great answer and explanation! Sometimes I just need a new perspective of a problem to see that it's actually not in fact even a problem. You really helped me ease those unreasonable worries (and the Don't panic reference was helpful too :D ). Every day I see how much I sti...

Hi and thank you for those kind words <3 I would like to share something off topis but after a long time something that's not entirely unrelated to the name of this thread, lol. Because of some medical issues I've had a lot of ultrasound examinations and several times it incidentally showed an ovari...

Hi, (If you'd prefer answers just from staff and volunteers or this is for any other reason not something you are okay with, I totally understand that and feel free to let me know or just ignore this) I just thought that since I see myself in pretty much everything you have written and asked, it cou...

Hi and thank you so much, that's so kind of you <3 (Whenever I put in my username I remember how I first came here and you knew what it means, it was such a nice surprise :) ) I don't have anything new to talk about at the moment, I'm just tired from all the holiday and family stress. But thank you ...

I watched  The half of it (because I discovered it's possible to delete Netflix viewing history) and for me it was a really nice mix of lighthearted but touching, cute but not too romantic and funny but real. Than you so much for the lovely list! I can't even decide what to read first :D. Probably t...

Thanks! I in fact had a really nice day yesterday. Everyone else went away for the afternoon to visit my grandma in a hospital but I couldn't go because I have a little cold so I stayed at home to do the cooking and other stuff. But I managed a short walk and I felt safe enough to watch one queer fi...

Hi, Sadly there's no counselor ar our school right now and there won't be any time soon. Thank you for that recommendation, unfortunately all options I've seen so far are still way out of my budget (most countries are just expensive for us in comparison with our country). What I'd like the best woul...

Thank you, right now I can't see how it'd ever work out, especially when it comes to my parents and money. But if anyone wants to try searching for some options I'd really appreciate it! If it turns out to be impossible right now I will at least have some good resources to recommend to other people ...

Thank you So, I've realized that this "I'm sorry for everything, I'm never coming here again" whenever I feel little down but never actually proceeding to do that might stem not only from some need to create drama and get attention but also from the fact that I just can't see you as an ano...