Hey, So my boyfriend and I were making out and we decided to have sex but since we didn't have any condoms we couldn't. But since I was supposed to get periods on that day and since we both never had any sexual contact with anyone else before we don't have std or sti risks , he just penetrated me on...

I don't think I can go without my parents knowing. But it's a little better than yesterday.

No my partner doesn't have a rash now or even during the intercourse. No I'm not facing any other symptoms as you have stated above it's just a rash which is itchy and painful.
My parents are kinda strict so I can't tell this to anyone nor I can go to a doctor. So please help me

Hey , So 2 days ago I had sex . Well my boyfriend and I were doing some stuff and we decided to have sex. Basically we decided to have sex but we couldn't because we both decided then we were not ready. So there was just little bit of penetration nothing else . But we used condom but now I'm have a ...

Yes of course

No I haven't spoken to anyone about this actually. What should I do in this situation?

I just don't know why I feel like this . I never intentionally try to hurt the feelings of my loved . I get into this really obsessive overthinking phase that I always think the worst. I just don't know how to stop it . This thing is really bothering me. Thank you for having so much patience with me .

Okay I got it thanks

Another thing I saw is that name calling is also a kind of abuse . What does name calling mean ? Can you please give me an example?
Sometimes I also say that "how stupid are you?"or" don't be a jerk " . Are those name calling?

Okay I understood. So in my cases it was not abusive ?

Hey Emily N , Thank you for your explanation it was were helpful . So in my case it was not an abusive behaviour I guess. I have seen my times when people fight they stop talking to eachother and after some time they make up. I told not talking to someone you had a fight with is a general human reac...

So I read in an article that silent treatment is a form of abuse . I think I have given silent treatment to people before. When I was young people would say that I talk too much so after I won't talk to them at all . Last week my friend and I were in class and we both were frustrated so something ha...

Hey , I would like to continue talking about what is abuse . I am still having some confusions .

Hey Sofi,
Yeah I would like to talk about this a little bit.

No I was not saying that it is a normal behaviour . I was saying that sometimes people are blinded rage that they hurt their loved ones.

This advice was very helpful . Thanks . So , I guess abuse is a result of frustration or anger. It's all about controlling your emotions in a healthy way . I think most men or even women abuses their partner because they feel entitled to do that act .

Hi Elise, Thank you for your advice . Yeah I have a friend group who really helped me during these situations . My father mostly spends his time outside and whenever he is home we don't interact very much so it's fine .I will definitely use the above helplines you have mentioned . Okay so abuse is m...

It's fine after all this year's I have learnt to live with him. When I get older I will get out this town and never have to see him . But for now I can't do anything I am dependent on him for school , clothes and food as I have nowhere else to go. Can you be more specific about what do you mean abus...

Nowadays when in a movie or real life someone says that I'll punch you or slap you etc in a threatening manner not to their partner or kids I feel like they are abusive . It almost happens everywhere . I can't get rid of it. I want to know in which situation it is abusive or in which situation it is...

Well to be honest I always knew she was not hurt by it because she has also done something like that to me before. I have very complicated feels about my father . He is very controlling and abusive person . He is not a violent person who lose control of his emotions , he does this things knowingly ....

Hey Sam W, Yes I asked my friend about it and she doesn't even remember when it happened . I explained her everything and she told me not to worry about it and that she is fine . I know what my mother did to me was abusive and bad but in my culture it's very common for parents to hit their kids( I a...

Actually I need a little more help understanding this though I admit the article was very helpful . See I have always known what abuse really means I guess it means hurting someone and when when you're hurting someone I think you know what you are doing . My father had hit my mother only two times a...

Thank you Heather for replying . Yes you are right I shouldn't have used the word "trigger ".
I guess abuse means the urge to control or dominate someone . After seeing that article I hope I have a better understanding of abuse.

What exactly is abuse ? Lately I am triggered by everything . When I see someone playfully pinch or hit people not to hurt them but just to tease them I immediately think it's abuse and then I feel like I am an abuser because I have also playful hit people not to cause pain but I sometimes become ag...