it's true things are better now, i feel even more relaxed for not worrying about it anymore

yes you'r right, I thought about that while reading the third article

ok, I read the 3 articles fully (sorry, it took me a while because I didn't had time) I must say that they helped quite a lot: I thought about the concept of "not having a goal of inserting something" and "go slow and relax". That is a thing that I should do more. The article abo...

I'll surely do it, thanx to you too, Ashleah!

yes I do external stimulation a lot before trying to insert a finger; I used to do it more often but one time I hurt myself and didn't inserted it for a month. Is it possible that the tightness is caused by that one time?

thank you for the links, I will look at both of them!

hi Sam, well, I'm actually pretty tense because it hurts... about the lubrifications' part, I don't use one but I just "use mine", i don't think that's the problem; I read that an incredibly amount of girls have the same problem as mine

I'll be very short here, I basically can insert just one finger into my vagina and if I try to insert two, it hurts so much! I read tons of articles about it and I'm basically giving up about it, I mean, I hate it but I must accept it by force, so.... it's also true that internal stimulation doesn't...

perfect, thanx again (for the 4° time, hehe ^_^)

aww thank you! actually yes... I wonder if my hole will open again ^^; actually I decided that I will not use it again, it isn't necessary to feel pleasure, after all

Thank you so much, this site helped me so much lately <3

ah, I see... I'm really sorry, I should have read more info before writing here
thanx for replying

Hello, this is my first post here. I have a problem... I was masturbating last night and I inserted a finger inside like I always do, but this time I went deeper in it. I felt like I was having and orgasm, but before it I felt pain and the pleasure disappeared, so I pulled out my finger. Some minute...