Hi there altrockhudson, and welcome in! As a very general statement, I think it's good to make plans for the future, when it comes to relationships, based on whatever people are telling us now , in the moment. It sounds like your friend is expressing some level of attraction to you, but that she's ...

Hi everyone, this is my first post on Scarleteen! I'd appreciate some non-judgemental advice, so I thought I'd try here. I have a really close friend who I am in love with. This has been going on off-and-on for years- I was in love with her a few years ago, then we drifted because of COVID and a few...