Hi Sam, thanks for your answer. That’s a good point and it does help somewhat, but I think what I’m stuck on is how kinky we were being. I’ve never really tried kinks until this week and never presented myself as someone who’s openly sexual or kinky… And I don’t think I was ready to expose myself li...

Hey, pretty much what the title says. I got a consistent sexual partner for the first time since last week, and we found out that she’s really compatible with my masochist kink, so we’ve been doing some pretty intense stuff. Last night we did a lot for hours, but only this morning I saw a text from ...

Hi :] sry for the lack of news! I’ve slowly started to talk to them again and now feel as comfortable with them as before. I even feel like joking about the experience sometimes. I guess I really just had to wait it out. Thanks for all the help from you staffs! And excuse me if I got paranoid 😅 at l...

When I raised it to my therapist, it was me mentioning it as a past event that doesn’t bother me anymore, I just said it for her to note down for future context so I wasn’t asking for advice. I’m not against telling her honestly but we just don’t usually go into topics about my sex life / sexual hea...

Hii Well theoretically I’m open to stuff in the far future! But I don’t think it not being kinky enough was the problem, since I was straight up repulsed by anything sex-related. I’ve had to slowly regain my sex drive these few days and couldn’t even think about my own genitals in the beginning… Sex...

No, I’m sure that no parts of it felt good or arousing :( When I felt that the atmosphere didn’t turn me on, I just focused on at least making us orgasm with the physical actions, but we couldn’t get there either. I’m not sure what counts as “quickly” but the process from texting to sex was similar ...

I think I might respond with something more vague and generic but not a lie. That I’ve been going through something and hanging out with others are overwhelming right now. I think I still do care for them, but I don’t feel it… I’m just trying to resolve this in a way without hurting them bc it feels...

Well, it happened yesterday… And it wasn’t very good… My initial fear was that we won’t be able to talk to each other anymore out of awkwardness, but it turns out to be more worse and complicated… I don’t know why- I just didn’t enjoy it. It was overall disinteresting- and slightly repulsive… Maybe ...

Alright, so I asked through text the day after we hung out! And they said they’re open to trying it, which would be 2 weeks later when they come back from a trip. The problem is I’m not sure if they actually want to? It wasn’t an enthusiastic ‘yes’ but a ‘yea Im willing to try’. Even when I asked mo...

Hmm, I think most of the time I’d just avoid talking to them till the negative feelings I associate with them fade, whether that’s a few minutes or a week. Many times they aren’t actually resolved. I feel like because of their self confidence issues and/or the same fear of awkwardness they have neve...

You’re right that I can’t predict how they’ll react! But I can’t imagine them making a big deal if they were to reject me, and they’ve also always mentioned not thinking that they’re suitable for a stable relationship so I doubt they will ask for one. It’s really just the potential awkwardness of it...

Hi, I’ve had this person as my one and only friend for years. We used to be classmates but got close after we only contacted by text. I’ve had a small crush on them before, but now that we’re of age and they are starting to seriously style themselves to look attractive I’ve become seriously sexually...

Thanks for the reply! This helps, and I have been reaching out to more experienced ftms and the toy shops too. I’m just feeling a lot of stress over this since if I mess up I don’t know when’s the next time I can buy so many of these at once. But there’s only so much I can do before actually purchas...

Hello, back with another question! As ftm I’ve been having an increasing want to have a prosthetic for sexual purposes (both solo and when with others). I’d like one that would put pressure on my bottom growth and look real, to give that realistic illusion. The most obvious toy for this would be a p...

Hi, I’ve had this obvious external hemorrhoid since I was a toddler, probably due to sitting in the bathroom for too long (bad habit). It’s been entirely painless and not irritating, but not changing/improving over the years. :| I haven’t been in a sexual situation involving my own genitals yet and ...

I’m at my last year of high school, so my peers are all around 18 yrs old. We got into the topic of teacher/(of age) student relationships, and I was surprised by how casual people feel about it happening irl? Even the teachers. Am I the odd one out for feeling uncomfortable and concerned about it? ...

Ooh ok! Thanks for the reply. I was mainly just concerned if it was a sign of something serious. But ah well its just how my parts look like I guess lol

Hi, I’m a ftm teen who just started testosterone treatment about ten days ago, so I’m always checking my clitoris for bottom growth. Today I noticed on the edge of the clitoris hood there is a relatively large, completely white vein? I’m sure it’s not smegma as I can feel it as a part of the skin. I...