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by fodder_king_
Tue Aug 23, 2022 12:17 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Fetish incompatible with my own nature; dealing with abnormal amount of intrusive thoughts a day
Replies: 5
Views: 1798

Re: Fetish incompatible with my own nature; dealing with abnormal amount of intrusive thoughts a day

Hello Sam, thank you so much for replying Ultimately the effect of these exercises wore off because of monotony: I got used to them, and so they lost effectiveness Hi fodderking, I'm glad what Carly said resonated with you! There's some limit to where I can take this conversation, since mental healt...
by fodder_king_
Tue Aug 23, 2022 10:01 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Fetish incompatible with my own nature; dealing with abnormal amount of intrusive thoughts a day
Replies: 5
Views: 1798

Re: Fetish incompatible with my own nature; dealing with abnormal amount of intrusive thoughts a day

Hello, thank you so much for replying; I'll do my best to answer as much as I can: I think you did a good job of identifying what about the fan art is triggering for you - the perception that Lappland is in danger. You also have identified that you're a very protective person. Are these things perha...
by fodder_king_
Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:08 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Fetish incompatible with my own nature; dealing with abnormal amount of intrusive thoughts a day
Replies: 5
Views: 1798

Fetish incompatible with my own nature; dealing with abnormal amount of intrusive thoughts a day

I'll cut to the quick and will try to provide as much detail as possible. I apologize for the wall of text, I really, really tried to make this as concise as I can: I have a bondage/restraint fetish, and i've had this for most of my life (restraining people, and not the other way around). I am also ...