Do any of those sound like things you would like to chat about or is there a different specific direction you would like to take the conversation? I don't think it will be necessary, I had an appointment and the psychiatrist for some reason kind of agreed with pretty much everything I brought up fr...

I wonder if it might help to find some examples of men's bodies that very obviously contradict the idea that fat=unhealthy (that seems like one of the main ideas to focus on breaking down for you). Have you ever looked into that sort of thing? Hello there, if you mean a concrete case to exemplify i...

Hey there. So, I hear you expressing a lot of discomfort in this post with what sounds like someone who has told you your body needs to be smaller than actually feels right to you. What I am sharing is the start of some information to make clear that there often isn't a sound scientific or medical ...

Thank you, I will absolutely read them in depth when I have time. Hope you get better soon, but if it's not much to ask right now, what is the point you are trying to make? "That I don't have to run away?" I would like to believe, but honestly I don't know who or what to trust anymore. It'...

Can you explain a little more about your inclination to call how you're feeling about gaining weight a fetish? Probably I chose the word without thought considering the image I had of some of them as being harmful. As Heather explained, it's a different category. I didn't know the correct use. In w...

Right: all of those things, that whole way of seeing things, stands counter to data we have about fat and health in 2022. But how can I get proof? I see these people and I know they are professional from all their titles, all their recognition from others like them, etc. From a while I've been unde...

Hi there, knr. Personally, I would be wary of a nutritionist in 2022 that didn't acknowledge there is no such thing as one right weight, shape or size, or that was telling you you needed to be thinner. We simply have so much data by now than we did even just a decade ago. The way it sounds like thi...

I have this fetish of becoming fat and I don't know how to stop it. I'm only a little above the correct weight and my nutritionist has confirmed what going beyond would cause and thus I need to be thinner (common knowledge redundancy apart I guess). I'm taking therapy and only casually mentioned &qu...